You smiled and talked to me of nothing and I felt that for this I had been waiting long

你对我微笑着 沉默不语 我觉得 为了这个 我已等候很久 ​：

有人想跟你环游世界，有人想跟你柴米油盐酱醋茶，可是我就想跟在你的身后，我很好养的，有你在一日三餐小米粥都可以，我想和你坐在一起，放着俗套的音乐，做着俗套的事，只和你眉来眼去一辈子。

这寥寥百字就将喜欢这件事情描述的格外贴切，是啊，我们哪有什么远大又宏伟的愿望，无非就是希望每天牵着喜欢人的手，跟在喜欢人的身后，一起体会着这人世间最平凡的烟火气就很好啊。

好像我们年纪越大就越来越难以相信这个世界上会有什么真爱，但往往又总是能够在单纯的爱情里忍不住的感动。

我曾经看到过一句话，是一位英国作家说的：我见到她之前，从未想到过要结婚；我娶了她几十年，从未后悔娶她，也未想过要娶别的女人。

遇见你之前，我认为命运对我轻薄，遇见你之后我才恍然大悟，这之前的孤身一人，路途遥远，山河阻拦，都在为我遇见你这件事情埋下伏笔。

我想也正是因为你的出现，才能让我勇敢的说出那一句：

“往后余生，风雪是你，平淡是你，清贫是你，荣华是你，心底温柔是你，目光所至也是你。”


J

#小学留学[超话]# Marsden Primary and Preschool students said an emotional farewell to Director of Primary, Celia McCarthy this morning in a special celebration in the chapel that had been decorated with hearts. There was cake of course, speeches, singing, lots of presents from every year level, including a beautiful tree picture signed with a fingerprint by every Primary student, and at the end ... a special hug for everyone. Celia is retiring in her 20th year at Marsden. She has held a variety of roles during her time here including teaching Y4 and Y6 in Primary, teaching Maths, English, French and RE in the Middle School and Positive Psychology in the Senior School, and she has undertaken leadership roles as Dean of Middle School and Director of Primary. For 12 years Celia’s leadership of our Primary School has been characterised by strong relationships with staff, students and families, and her caring presence will be missed, along with her ever-present Scottish accent! Celia will be heading to Scotland to spend time with her mother who is entering her 90th year. She was formally farewelled by Staff and the Board this afternoon with much warmth and aroha. Dear Celia we will miss you, all the best for your retirement!

"You have never really been alone, because you are full of memories, limitations, complaints and complaints of the past. Your heart has never properly cleaned up the garbage, and you can only be alone if you let all the things of the past die." -- krishnamurti
“你从来不曾真正独处过，因为你充满了记忆、限制、昨日的怨言和牢骚，你的心从未好好清理过这些垃圾，也惟有先让昨日的种种死去，才可能独处。”