What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. _____ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Not overdo something depends on what kind of thing. Sometimes we play jokes someone continually,someone maybe doesn’t care about it. Maybe others feel uncomfortable. In suitable circumstances, it shows our humor which mentioned something with someone haphazardly.
Not overdo something depends on what kind of thing. Sometimes we play jokes someone continually,someone maybe doesn’t care about it. Maybe others feel uncomfortable. In suitable circumstances, it shows our humor which mentioned something with someone haphazardly.
#旅行[超话]# 旅行对我来说，从来就不是一件可有可无的消遣，它和去创办一家改变人们生活方式的公司一样重要，它和生养几个孩子陪伴他们长大一样重要。世界这么辽远，地球这么广阔，为什么要把自己困在一个小小的天地里？在不同的地方，有不同的人，有不同的植物，有不同的动物，有不同的食物，有不同的酒，有不同的生活方式，有不同的艺术，有不同的美。 “There is wisdom in turning as often as possible from the familiar to the unfamiliar: it keeps the mind nimble;it kills prejudice,and it fosters humor.”（经常从熟知的一切中抽身而出，去面对未知事物，这是一种智慧的体现：头脑借此保持敏锐；偏见泯灭，幽默滋长。） https://t.cn/Rf37NIb
聪明的标志是什么？
Buddha佛陀的意思是开悟者，也是聪明之极之人。梵文buddhi有聪明的意思，而聪明有四种标志。
1. 警觉
聪明的第一个标志是警觉。你不能说，“我聪明，可就是有点迷糊。”聪明意味着警觉。当你警觉的时候，感知和观察就会改善，这会帮助你的表达变得完美。
很多时候，人们会说，“哦，没人理解我”。 相反，他们应该说，“我还不能够表达自己。”如果你有表达的技巧，那就不会有误解。感知、观察和表达——所有这些都来自于警觉。
如果你长时间保持高度警觉，会怎样呢? 你会疲倦和感到精疲力竭。所以， 一直保持警觉并不是我们大脑的本性。我们需要放松。我们所知道的放松方式就是抱个枕头去睡觉。仅此而已。睡眠是需要的，但还有一种放松方式，让你既警觉同时又放松，那就是静心。
2. 解决冲突的能力
聪明的另一个标志是解决冲突的能力。愚蠢的人制造冲突。聪明的人知道如何解决自己内在的及自己外在周遭的冲突。
如果有人很有创造力，但制造了很多冲突，你会说，“哦，老天爷，那真不是聪明的做法。”不是吗?
如果你把一个聪明的人置于冲突之中，冲突是会更严重还是会减轻? 一定是会减轻或被完全解决! 倾向于传播和谐是聪明的标志。找到解决办法的能力是聪明的标志。
3. 幽默
聪明的下一个标志是幽默。
我想告诉你一个故事，辨喜大师去到一家餐馆，和他的教授坐在同一张桌子上。教授告诉辨喜，“一头猪和一只鸟不能坐在同一张桌子上吃东西。”
你知道辨喜大师是怎么回答的吗? 他说:“先生，无论你什么时候告诉我，我会马上飞走的。”
聪明能够把每一次冲突转化为幽默。幽默是聪明的另一个标志。如果你有幽默感，你就能解决任何冲突。
4. 压力管理
聪明的另一个标志是不会产生压力，即使是有了压力，也知道如何解决。聪明就是知道我们的心智和身体的使用限度，而不过度使用它们。如果我们过度使用我们的心智和身体，我们就会疲倦，精疲力竭，被耗尽。
What are the signs of Intelligence?
Buddha means the enlightened, and also the super intelligent. Buddhi in Sanskrit means intelligence, and there are four signs of intelligence.
1．Alertness
The first sign of intelligence is being alert. You can’t say that I am intelligent but I am a little sleepy. Intelligence means alertness. When you are alert, your perception and observation improves and this helps your expression become perfect.
Many times, people say, “Oh, nobody understands me.” Instead, they should say, “I haven’t been able to express myself.” If you have the skill to express, then there can be no misunderstandings. Perception, observation, and expression – all these come from being alert.
Now, if you keep yourself very alert for long periods of time, what happens? You get tired and feel exhausted. So, it’s not in the nature of our brain to be alert all the time. We need relaxation. And the type of relaxation we know is taking a pillow and going to sleep. That's it. Sleep is necessary, but there is another type of relaxation where you are alert and at the same time relaxed, and that is meditation.
2．Ability to Resolve Conflict
Another sign of intelligence is the ability to resolve conflict. Fools create conflicts. An intelligent person knows how to resolve conflicts in oneself and in her/his surroundings.
If someone is creative but creates a lot of conflicts, you say, “Oh my god, that's not an intelligent thing to do”, isn't it so?
If you put an intelligent person amid a conflict, will there be more conflict or will s/he reduce it? S/he will reduce or resolve it! The tendency to bring harmony is a sign of intelligence. The ability to find a solution is a sign of intelligence.
3．Humor
The next sign of intelligence is humor.
There is a story I would like to tell you. Swami Vivekananda went to a restaurant and went and sat on the same table as his professor. The professor told Swami Vivekananda, “A pig and a bird can't sit on the same table and eat.”
Do you know what Swami Vivekananda said? He said, “Sir, whenever you tell me, I will fly away.”
Intelligence has the ability to turn every conflict into humor. Humor is another sign of intelligence. If you have humor, you will overcome any conflicting situation.
4．Stress Management
Another sign of intelligence is not getting stressed, and if you do get stressed, to know how to get over it. Intelligence is to know how much to use our mind and our body, and to not overuse it. If we overuse our mind and our body, we get drained, exhausted, and tired.
Buddha佛陀的意思是开悟者，也是聪明之极之人。梵文buddhi有聪明的意思，而聪明有四种标志。
1. 警觉
聪明的第一个标志是警觉。你不能说，“我聪明，可就是有点迷糊。”聪明意味着警觉。当你警觉的时候，感知和观察就会改善，这会帮助你的表达变得完美。
很多时候，人们会说，“哦，没人理解我”。 相反，他们应该说，“我还不能够表达自己。”如果你有表达的技巧，那就不会有误解。感知、观察和表达——所有这些都来自于警觉。
如果你长时间保持高度警觉，会怎样呢? 你会疲倦和感到精疲力竭。所以， 一直保持警觉并不是我们大脑的本性。我们需要放松。我们所知道的放松方式就是抱个枕头去睡觉。仅此而已。睡眠是需要的，但还有一种放松方式，让你既警觉同时又放松，那就是静心。
2. 解决冲突的能力
聪明的另一个标志是解决冲突的能力。愚蠢的人制造冲突。聪明的人知道如何解决自己内在的及自己外在周遭的冲突。
如果有人很有创造力，但制造了很多冲突，你会说，“哦，老天爷，那真不是聪明的做法。”不是吗?
如果你把一个聪明的人置于冲突之中，冲突是会更严重还是会减轻? 一定是会减轻或被完全解决! 倾向于传播和谐是聪明的标志。找到解决办法的能力是聪明的标志。
3. 幽默
聪明的下一个标志是幽默。
我想告诉你一个故事，辨喜大师去到一家餐馆，和他的教授坐在同一张桌子上。教授告诉辨喜，“一头猪和一只鸟不能坐在同一张桌子上吃东西。”
你知道辨喜大师是怎么回答的吗? 他说:“先生，无论你什么时候告诉我，我会马上飞走的。”
聪明能够把每一次冲突转化为幽默。幽默是聪明的另一个标志。如果你有幽默感，你就能解决任何冲突。
4. 压力管理
聪明的另一个标志是不会产生压力，即使是有了压力，也知道如何解决。聪明就是知道我们的心智和身体的使用限度，而不过度使用它们。如果我们过度使用我们的心智和身体，我们就会疲倦，精疲力竭，被耗尽。
What are the signs of Intelligence?
Buddha means the enlightened, and also the super intelligent. Buddhi in Sanskrit means intelligence, and there are four signs of intelligence.
1．Alertness
The first sign of intelligence is being alert. You can’t say that I am intelligent but I am a little sleepy. Intelligence means alertness. When you are alert, your perception and observation improves and this helps your expression become perfect.
Many times, people say, “Oh, nobody understands me.” Instead, they should say, “I haven’t been able to express myself.” If you have the skill to express, then there can be no misunderstandings. Perception, observation, and expression – all these come from being alert.
Now, if you keep yourself very alert for long periods of time, what happens? You get tired and feel exhausted. So, it’s not in the nature of our brain to be alert all the time. We need relaxation. And the type of relaxation we know is taking a pillow and going to sleep. That's it. Sleep is necessary, but there is another type of relaxation where you are alert and at the same time relaxed, and that is meditation.
2．Ability to Resolve Conflict
Another sign of intelligence is the ability to resolve conflict. Fools create conflicts. An intelligent person knows how to resolve conflicts in oneself and in her/his surroundings.
If someone is creative but creates a lot of conflicts, you say, “Oh my god, that's not an intelligent thing to do”, isn't it so?
If you put an intelligent person amid a conflict, will there be more conflict or will s/he reduce it? S/he will reduce or resolve it! The tendency to bring harmony is a sign of intelligence. The ability to find a solution is a sign of intelligence.
3．Humor
The next sign of intelligence is humor.
There is a story I would like to tell you. Swami Vivekananda went to a restaurant and went and sat on the same table as his professor. The professor told Swami Vivekananda, “A pig and a bird can't sit on the same table and eat.”
Do you know what Swami Vivekananda said? He said, “Sir, whenever you tell me, I will fly away.”
Intelligence has the ability to turn every conflict into humor. Humor is another sign of intelligence. If you have humor, you will overcome any conflicting situation.
4．Stress Management
Another sign of intelligence is not getting stressed, and if you do get stressed, to know how to get over it. Intelligence is to know how much to use our mind and our body, and to not overuse it. If we overuse our mind and our body, we get drained, exhausted, and tired.
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