#chanel# Anniversary • I am finally able to own this @chanelofficial classic medium boy bag in this exact combination after a very long time searching from many places. What an amazing anniversary present from my husband .

Happy first decade-long wedding anniversary my love! Looking forward for many more decades to come. Thanks for always being there by my side .

#luvsummeikup#

这两天读了一本书，想到书中主人公问了这样一个问题，为什么我们总是言不由衷？
还举了一个例子和观点，大概意思是
Example:

When someone asks you how you’re doing,our gut instinct is to lie,and say you’re doing good, even if you’re not.
书里提出了：What is the shame in saying “you know what,I’m actually having a bad day,but hopefully it gets better,you know?“
但是我们的第一反应为什么还是想要撒谎，为什么呢？
接下来的这句话真的有戳到我
（译文在下段）“I realize for me I was doing it because I felt like you have to be fine.You always have to be okay.You always have to be doing good.Because you don’t want to bring anyone else down.May be that’s why our world has so many problems with mental health,and people feeling like they’re alone”
我意识到对我而言我言不由衷是因为我感觉我必须得过的很好，必须要时时刻刻都觉得过得不错，也必须得说一切安好。因为我们不想让别人因为自己感觉到麻烦和扫兴。也许这就是现在我们很多人都有心理健康问题，以及很多人觉得孤单的原因吧。 https://t.cn/RyhWpU5

人生不在年龄,贵在心理年轻;衣着不在时尚,贵在舒适合体；膳食不在丰富，贵在营养均衡；居室不在大小，贵在整洁舒畅；养生不在刻意，贵在顺其自然；锻炼不在夏冬，贵在持之以恒；作息不在早晚，贵在规律养成；情趣不在雅俗，贵在保持童心;朋友不在多少,贵在求一知己。

Life is not in age, you are young in mind; Clothing is not in fashion, you are comfortable fit; Diet is not rich, in the balance of nutrition; The room is not the size, you are clean and comfortable; Health is not deliberately, you in nature; Exercise is not in summer and winter, in perseverance; Work and rest is not sooner or later, you in the regular development; Interest is not elegant and vulgar, you keep the childlike innocence; Friends are not many, you are looking for a bosom friend.