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每个人能控制的、能左右的永远是他自己，能把握的永远是自己的当下。所以，在每一个当下，我们做最好的自己就行了，不要在乎结果。
雪漠 著《文化的温度》
May 11, 2023
What one can control is always oneself. What one can grasp is always the present. Therefore, at every moment, one just needs to be the best oneself, and meanwhile isn't attached to its related results.
Xue Mo

【每日如学】
2023年5月11日
每个人能控制的、能左右的永远是他自己，能把握的永远是自己的当下。所以，在每一个当下，我们做最好的自己就行了，不要在乎结果。
雪漠 著《文化的温度》
May 11, 2023
What one can control is always oneself. What one can grasp is always the present. Therefore, at every moment, one just needs to be the best oneself, and meanwhile isn't attached to its related results.
Xue Mo

#破产姐妹##美剧推荐##海外剧安利#
他才是loser，不是你
他与你分手，他切断和你的联系，他什么也不会干，只是一个来花钱和马合照的冤大头。
你自食其力，你可以抬头挺胸。
He is the loser, not you.

C：I can't face him,Max.
M：Why? He is the one who didn't call you.
C：I can't face him because I'm a waitress. Last time he saw me, I was a billionaire in a townhouse. Now I'm a waitress in a walk-in freezer.
M：So, when you are laying around on your trust fund, doing nothing everyday, having other people scrub your toilet, you could hold your head up high? But now that you support yourself by earning your own money, that's somehow shameful? Who cares what he thinks? He is the guy who just paid $100 to party with a horse.
M：He is the loser, not you.