如果别人惹了你，并不需要去报复。因为智商差是这世上最远的距离，别人做一件极坏的事，你跟着做,就等于把自己也拉低到同样层级。当有人和你过不去时,请远离小人,保持平静的心情。不要生气,但更不要记得。对付一个人最狠的办法,不是教训他,而是从记忆里删除他。

If someone messes with you, there's no need to retaliate. Because IQ is the furthest distance in the world, others do a very bad thing, you follow it, it is equivalent to pulling yourself down to the same level. When someone has trouble with you, please stay away from the villains and keep a calm mind. Don't be angry, but don't remember. The most ruthless way to deal with a person is not to teach him, but to delete him from memory.

女人这辈子的幸与不幸,都是从婚姻开始的。嫁得好的便是家,嫁的不好的便是无家,生了娃才知道不是多了个家，而是多了很多顾虑和委屈。

A woman's happiness and misfortune in this life all start from marriage. Married well is the home, married bad is no home, gave birth to a baby to know not more than a home, but a lot of concerns and grievances.

《看别人不顺眼,是自己修养不够。》看别人不顺眼，是自己修养不够。人愤怒的那一个瞬间，智商是零，过一分钟后恢复正常。人的优雅关键在于控制自己的情绪,用嘴伤害人,是最愚蠢的一种行为。我们的不自由,通常是因为来自内心的不良情绪左右了我们。一个能控制住不良情绪的人,比一个能拿下一座城池的人强大。目看别人不顺眼,是自己修养不够。

See others not pleasing to the eye, is their own cultivation is not enough. See others not pleasing to the eye, is their own cultivation is not enough. When a person is angry, the IQ is zero, and it returns to normal after a minute. The key to a person's grace is to control his emotions, and hurting people with his mouth is the most stupid behavior. We are not free, usually because of the bad emotions from the heart to control us. A person who can control bad emotions is stronger than a person who can take down a city. Look at others not pleasing to the eye, is their own cultivation is not enough.