某种程度上来说，人人都想要成为Frank，但是事实就是，there is only one，Frank.

上次这么喜欢的片子还是how to do with John Wilson. 对于一些悲伤基调的故事总是有特别的偏好。

大概他们的共同之处就在于，主角都是这个世界的outsider吧。跟大多数人的生活方式差距很大，没有办法适应主流社会的规则，生活在属于自己独有的空间里。 一种强烈的疏离感，好像是在远远地看着一切发生，想要融入但是又不愿融入。

羡慕Frank的头套，如果可以的话我也想拥有。不过大概率我就会像Don一样自己选择吊死在那棵树上，因为太想成为Frank却又永远没有办法成为他。

最后Frank唱I love you all，那才是真正属于他的地方。而John默默离开，花光了所有的积蓄，明白了自己就是一个没有才华的普通人，回到想要逃离的生活。

I would recognise you in total darkness
were you mute and I deaf
I would recognise you in another lifetime entirely
in different bodies
different times
And I would love you in all of this
until the very last star in the sky
burnt out into oblivion

— 《The Song of Achilles》

今年大概是前任扎堆结婚年。[吃瓜]
Why is everyone rushing into a marriage?!
What is wrong with enjoying the relationships?
What is the difference between lifelong dating and marriage?
Oh … it is the world’s rule we have to obey. [摊手]
Marrying someone is super duper easy, but marrying the right one is unbelievably difficult. I am gonna hang in there for a while…Good luck to myself and wish all the best to those newlyweds. https://t.cn/Rp7jQwq