Life is a fixed number
Luck is variable
No one will help me,
I stepped on the snow to the top of the mountain
If there is no such luck,
You can also wait for Kunlun alone！
A man is a soldier and a general...
(The picture shows that in the days when there is no business, we are betting on which house they will go to spend♂️)
La vie est un nombre déterminé,
la fortune une variable
Personne ne m’aide vert yun zhi,
Depuis la neige jusqu’au sommet de la montagne
Et si cela ne réussit pas,
Seul, vous pouvez aussi attendre kunlun
Un homme est un soldat et un homme sera！……
（Photo pendant les jours sans affaires，Nous sommes en train de parier sur une maison où ils vont tous les deux dépenser）
命是定数
运是变数
无人扶我青云志，
我自踏雪至山巅
倘若命中无此运，
孤身亦可等昆仑
一个人是兵也是将…
（图为在没有生意的日子里，我们在打赌他俩会去谁家消费♂️） https://t.cn/z8AITuY
Luck is variable
No one will help me,
I stepped on the snow to the top of the mountain
If there is no such luck,
You can also wait for Kunlun alone！
A man is a soldier and a general...
(The picture shows that in the days when there is no business, we are betting on which house they will go to spend♂️)
La vie est un nombre déterminé,
la fortune une variable
Personne ne m’aide vert yun zhi,
Depuis la neige jusqu’au sommet de la montagne
Et si cela ne réussit pas,
Seul, vous pouvez aussi attendre kunlun
Un homme est un soldat et un homme sera！……
（Photo pendant les jours sans affaires，Nous sommes en train de parier sur une maison où ils vont tous les deux dépenser）
命是定数
运是变数
无人扶我青云志，
我自踏雪至山巅
倘若命中无此运，
孤身亦可等昆仑
一个人是兵也是将…
（图为在没有生意的日子里，我们在打赌他俩会去谁家消费♂️） https://t.cn/z8AITuY
【#神十七与空间站成功对接#】 China's Shenzhou-17 manned spaceship successfully docked with the space station combination on Thursday, according to the China Manned Space Agency (CMSA).
The spaceship made a fast, automated rendezvous and docking with the front port of the space station's core module Tianhe at 5:46 p.m. Thursday (Beijing Time),
The whole process, from launch to docking, took approximately 6.5 hours, said the CMSA.
The astronaut trio aboard the spaceship will then enter the Tianhe module and the three astronauts of the Shenzhou-16 mission have got ready for their arrival, it said.
The spaceship, atop a Long March-2F carrier rocket, blasted off from the Jiuquan Satellite Launch Center in northwest China at 11:14 a.m. Thursday (Beijing Time). (Xinhua)
The spaceship made a fast, automated rendezvous and docking with the front port of the space station's core module Tianhe at 5:46 p.m. Thursday (Beijing Time),
The whole process, from launch to docking, took approximately 6.5 hours, said the CMSA.
The astronaut trio aboard the spaceship will then enter the Tianhe module and the three astronauts of the Shenzhou-16 mission have got ready for their arrival, it said.
The spaceship, atop a Long March-2F carrier rocket, blasted off from the Jiuquan Satellite Launch Center in northwest China at 11:14 a.m. Thursday (Beijing Time). (Xinhua)
“孩子们小的时候，我都是活在当下，当时费尽了心力带他们：做功课、外宿、确保食物供应不断。带这个去乐队演唱会，带那个去田径运动会，忧心的事很多，但它们似乎一直都可控。如果其中一个孩子有问题，通常我都干预得了，我以为：‘只要他们高中毕业了，我的任务就算完成了，就能清闲清闲了。’但孩子们现在都已成年，我却比以前更操心了，因为他们的问题没停过，只是变成了成年人的问题。如今我也帮不上什么忙。我一个儿子得了抑郁症，我是在周日晚上通电话时开始注意到的——他的语调很平缓，回答也都很简短，然后我问对了问题，才确定他抑郁了。他说：‘我抑郁了，不知道为什么，也不知道怎么能治好。’有天晚上，他在电话里哭了——很安静地哭，这是最糟的，因为你束手无策。电话里很多寂静的时刻，还有：‘你还在吗？’我也说不出什么能让他高兴起来的话，母亲们在一辈子的赞美之后往往会失去信誉，所以现在我只担心它会不会好，我担心他以后会不会快乐。我催了他去找专家看看，但除了祈祷，别的我也做不了什么。我不确定祈祷有没有用，但我还是跪下来做了。”
“When the kids were young I was living in the moment. I was just trying to get them through the day: homework projects, sleepovers, keeping the food coming. Taking this one to a band concert. That one to a track meet. There were plenty of worries, but they always seemed manageable. I could usually intervene if one of the kids had a problem. And I thought: ‘Once they’re out of high school, I’m done. I’ll finally be able to relax.’ But all my children are adults now, and I’m worrying more than ever. Because their problems didn’t stop. They just became adult problems. And there’s not much I can do anymore. One of my sons has depression. I began to notice during our Sunday night phone calls-- his voice was flat, the answers were short. Then I asked the right questions and it all came out. He said: ‘I’m depressed. And I don’t know why. And I don’t know how to fix it.’ One night he just wept on the phone-- quiet weeping, which is the worst. Because there’s nothing to address. Just lots of dead space, and: ‘Are you still there?’ There wasn’t much I could say to cheer him up. Mothers tend to lose their credibility after a lifetime of praise. So I’m just left to worry if it will ever resolve. I worry if he’ll ever be happy. I urged him to see a professional, but there’s not much else I can do but pray. I’m not sure if prayer helps, but I get on my knees and do it anyway.”
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“When the kids were young I was living in the moment. I was just trying to get them through the day: homework projects, sleepovers, keeping the food coming. Taking this one to a band concert. That one to a track meet. There were plenty of worries, but they always seemed manageable. I could usually intervene if one of the kids had a problem. And I thought: ‘Once they’re out of high school, I’m done. I’ll finally be able to relax.’ But all my children are adults now, and I’m worrying more than ever. Because their problems didn’t stop. They just became adult problems. And there’s not much I can do anymore. One of my sons has depression. I began to notice during our Sunday night phone calls-- his voice was flat, the answers were short. Then I asked the right questions and it all came out. He said: ‘I’m depressed. And I don’t know why. And I don’t know how to fix it.’ One night he just wept on the phone-- quiet weeping, which is the worst. Because there’s nothing to address. Just lots of dead space, and: ‘Are you still there?’ There wasn’t much I could say to cheer him up. Mothers tend to lose their credibility after a lifetime of praise. So I’m just left to worry if it will ever resolve. I worry if he’ll ever be happy. I urged him to see a professional, but there’s not much else I can do but pray. I’m not sure if prayer helps, but I get on my knees and do it anyway.”
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