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#MilePhakphum[超话]#
240115 For@milephakphum 3️⃣
所以我不禁反问道，
温柔的人注定会被take advantage,
那么，还渴望做个温柔的人吗？
在我的内心深处的想法是：我不要温柔了。
而你将远走于天际之巅厌世的我，
一件事、一件事的拉回来，
言传身教给我看:
a 强大的内心和定力，保持独立意志，不轻易被外界事务干扰，或者被他人的态度带偏。
b 良好的情绪管理能力，心态平和稳定，不轻易被过于激烈的情绪掌控，有自我消解负面情绪的能力
c 理由同理新，懂得换位思考，能看懂世间的无奈，也能体谅别人的难处。
d 有良好的的沟通能力， 善于倾听，又知道如何说话妥帖。
e 足够爱自己，善待他人是因为自己拥有爱，想与人分享，而并非出自刻意讨好。
f 有原则性，温柔不是软弱，也不是纵容，将善意保持在合理的范围内，并非毫无底线,可动怒。
其实你是知晓世间苦的，
记得所经受的每一次伤害，
不是原谅它们，不是忘记它们，
而是清晰的记住它们，
在每个静寂的夜，
灵魂间互相触碰交流之时，
回想起每一个细节。
所以，真正的温柔之下，其实满是伤痕。
未完待续。。。
So I asked,
The gentle ones are destined to take advantage,
So, still long to be a gentle person?
In the back of my mind was this: I don't want to be gentle.
And you'll be on the top of the sky weary of me,
One thing, one thing pulls back into the world,
Teach me by example:
a strong heart and concentration, maintain an independent will, not easily disturbed by external affairs, or by the attitude of others.
b Good emotional management ability, calm and stable mentality, not easily controlled by too intense emotions, have the ability to self-resolve negative emotions
c reason for the same new, understand empathy, can understand the helplessness of the world, but also understand the difficulties of others.
d Has good communication skills, is good at listening, and knows how to speak appropriately.
Love yourself enough to be kind to others because you have love and want to share it, not because you want to please others.
f is principled, gentleness is not weakness, nor indulgence, will keep goodwill within a reasonable range, not no bottom line, can be angry.
In fact, you know the suffering of the world,
Remember every hurt I've ever suffered,
Not to forgive them, not to forget them,
But to remember them clearly,
In the stillness of each night,
When souls touch and communicate,
Recall every detail.
Therefore, under the real tenderness, in fact, it is full of scars.
240115 For@milephakphum 3️⃣
所以我不禁反问道，
温柔的人注定会被take advantage,
那么，还渴望做个温柔的人吗？
在我的内心深处的想法是：我不要温柔了。
而你将远走于天际之巅厌世的我，
一件事、一件事的拉回来，
言传身教给我看:
a 强大的内心和定力，保持独立意志，不轻易被外界事务干扰，或者被他人的态度带偏。
b 良好的情绪管理能力，心态平和稳定，不轻易被过于激烈的情绪掌控，有自我消解负面情绪的能力
c 理由同理新，懂得换位思考，能看懂世间的无奈，也能体谅别人的难处。
d 有良好的的沟通能力， 善于倾听，又知道如何说话妥帖。
e 足够爱自己，善待他人是因为自己拥有爱，想与人分享，而并非出自刻意讨好。
f 有原则性，温柔不是软弱，也不是纵容，将善意保持在合理的范围内，并非毫无底线,可动怒。
其实你是知晓世间苦的，
记得所经受的每一次伤害，
不是原谅它们，不是忘记它们，
而是清晰的记住它们，
在每个静寂的夜，
灵魂间互相触碰交流之时，
回想起每一个细节。
所以，真正的温柔之下，其实满是伤痕。
未完待续。。。
So I asked,
The gentle ones are destined to take advantage,
So, still long to be a gentle person?
In the back of my mind was this: I don't want to be gentle.
And you'll be on the top of the sky weary of me,
One thing, one thing pulls back into the world,
Teach me by example:
a strong heart and concentration, maintain an independent will, not easily disturbed by external affairs, or by the attitude of others.
b Good emotional management ability, calm and stable mentality, not easily controlled by too intense emotions, have the ability to self-resolve negative emotions
c reason for the same new, understand empathy, can understand the helplessness of the world, but also understand the difficulties of others.
d Has good communication skills, is good at listening, and knows how to speak appropriately.
Love yourself enough to be kind to others because you have love and want to share it, not because you want to please others.
f is principled, gentleness is not weakness, nor indulgence, will keep goodwill within a reasonable range, not no bottom line, can be angry.
In fact, you know the suffering of the world,
Remember every hurt I've ever suffered,
Not to forgive them, not to forget them,
But to remember them clearly,
In the stillness of each night,
When souls touch and communicate,
Recall every detail.
Therefore, under the real tenderness, in fact, it is full of scars.
边缘症｜诠释性的高级阶段
Otto F.Kernberg,Frank Yeomans,Diana Diamond,Eve Caligor, The Interpretive Process in the Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy of Borderline Personality Pathology，(2009)。美国精神分析联想杂志，57(2):271-301
✨虽然诠释性过程的这一阶段最初可能会引起焦虑，但它同时支持病人的现实检验和自我反思能力，为诠释性过程的下一阶段奠定了基础。
✨在诠释性过程的高级（advanced）阶段，分析师会探索病人在移情中的体验的意义假设，特别关注防御操作背后的动机和焦虑。
#边缘性人格障碍##每日科普##透过现象理解本质##心理科普##新手咨询师成长##心理咨询##人格障碍##bpd#
Otto F.Kernberg,Frank Yeomans,Diana Diamond,Eve Caligor, The Interpretive Process in the Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy of Borderline Personality Pathology，(2009)。美国精神分析联想杂志，57(2):271-301
✨虽然诠释性过程的这一阶段最初可能会引起焦虑，但它同时支持病人的现实检验和自我反思能力，为诠释性过程的下一阶段奠定了基础。
✨在诠释性过程的高级（advanced）阶段，分析师会探索病人在移情中的体验的意义假设，特别关注防御操作背后的动机和焦虑。
#边缘性人格障碍##每日科普##透过现象理解本质##心理科普##新手咨询师成长##心理咨询##人格障碍##bpd#
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