让我们恐惧的,往往不是面对的问题本身,而是对于恐惧的恐惧,放大了问题的严重性,把洒洒水的问题想象成汪洋大海。
当你能具象化问题,把问题准确描述出来,而不是因为恐惧就逃避问题,就会发现答案也跟着出现,会发现问题远没有自己想象中那么大。
遇到问题的时候,想一下,这个问题会不会让我死?不是社死的那个死,没那么多人在意你的面子和你要钻哪个地缝,如果不至于死,那就是小事。
生死之外,都是小事。
生活中的确有众多的不确定性,我们都一直在寻找答案
但有些问题还没有答案。
我们是否可以活在问题中?
我们是否可以允许问题不马上得到答案,得到解决?
Can we live in the questions?
当你能具象化问题,把问题准确描述出来,而不是因为恐惧就逃避问题,就会发现答案也跟着出现,会发现问题远没有自己想象中那么大。
遇到问题的时候,想一下,这个问题会不会让我死?不是社死的那个死,没那么多人在意你的面子和你要钻哪个地缝,如果不至于死,那就是小事。
生死之外,都是小事。
生活中的确有众多的不确定性,我们都一直在寻找答案
但有些问题还没有答案。
我们是否可以活在问题中?
我们是否可以允许问题不马上得到答案,得到解决?
Can we live in the questions?
#westlife[超话]#we have another China tour coming up in May
Feeling a mix of emotions as Kian Egan drops the news of Westlife taking a break for a year or two after the Wild Dreams Tour. Can't deny a tinge of sadness, but if it means they come back stronger, it's okay. What are your thoughts on this, fellow Westlife fans? Drop your feelings below!
Feeling a mix of emotions as Kian Egan drops the news of Westlife taking a break for a year or two after the Wild Dreams Tour. Can't deny a tinge of sadness, but if it means they come back stronger, it's okay. What are your thoughts on this, fellow Westlife fans? Drop your feelings below!
“当发现无法沟通的时候,就放弃沟通。人与人相处的原则是:我们不同,但都没有错。”圈子不同,观念不同,经历不同,想法不同,不必强融,相互尊重。
"When you find it impossible to communicate, give up. The principle of dealing with people is: we are different, but we are not wrong." Different circles, different ideas, different experiences, different ideas, no need to force fusion, mutual respect.
"When you find it impossible to communicate, give up. The principle of dealing with people is: we are different, but we are not wrong." Different circles, different ideas, different experiences, different ideas, no need to force fusion, mutual respect.
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