如果不喜欢,那就去改变,如果改变不了,那就去适应。如果做不到适应,那就只好回避。如果连回避也做不到,就只有放手。但一般的情况是,能干的人会选择改变,懒惰的人会选择适应，懦弱的人选择回避，勇敢的人选择放手。

If you don't like it, change it. If you can't change it, adapt. If you can't adapt, then you have to avoid. If you can't even avoid it, you have to let go. But the general situation is that capable people will choose to change, lazy people will choose to adapt, weak people choose to avoid, brave people choose to let go.

Real is Rare. Don’t let lame shit like pride and ego obstruct you from cherishing what’s so precious and rare.
我愿意和爱的人一起变好，和爱的人经历人生一起变好是我的梦想。因为没有人生下来完美，童年伤痛也以各种形式呈现。
但是珍惜诚实愿意和你成长的人是重要的。
而不是让自己的自恋型人格的pride，ego成为自我成长，和珍惜他人的绊脚石。
#童年经历对成长有多重要##自恋型人格障碍#

#每日一善[超话]#
#阳光信用# #每日一善#
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. 光明灿烂的明天建立在忘却的过去之上。只有让以往的失败和伤心随风而去，你才能过得更好. ​​​