人生不是场赌局，不是你想怎样安排砝码就怎样发的。
The live for human not a gambling party,that not you wanna to arrange if to be.

人生没有彩排，没有第二人生。
The live without rehearsal,cannot come again.

命运只负责洗牌，所以每个人都是公平的。
The destine wash card is only duty for everyone,so fairly for everyone.

the past is always with us. Where we come from, what we go through, how we go through it — all that shit matters. It's like, you can change up. You can say you somebody new. You can give yourself a whole new story. But what came first is who you really are, and what happened before is what really happened. It doesn't matter that some fool say he different, because the only thing that make you different is what you really do, or what you really go through. Gatsby, he was who he was, and he did what he did, and because he wasn't ready to get real with the story, that shit caught up to him.

可能是男生找到了更喜欢的女孩子，也可能是看不到关系的进度条,看不到希望,再或者就是故意后撤，总之就是对这个女生态度冷淡了，然后你会发现这个女生情绪就被调动起来了,立马就慌了，这种突然的失去感造成的不适感，就会让女生觉得自己爱上他了,甚至是很喜欢他很离不开他。

It may be that the boy found the girl he liked more, it may be that he could not see the progress bar of the relationship, could not see hope, or it was deliberately withdrawn, in short, it was cold toward the girl, and then you will find that the girl's emotions were mobilized, immediately panicked, and the discomfort caused by this sudden sense of loss. It will make the girl feel that she is in love with him, and even like him very much.