朋友：你一个人去那么多地方，一定很独立吧？！
我：哈哈，出门在外主打一个全世界照顾我[二哈][赞]

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……[疑问]出来一个月了，唯一辜负我的不是人，是狗。？[疑问]？咋了，狗粮很难吃？？ https://t.cn/8sG74Ff

成熟的表现就是看透了原本以为的一切，一切看起来都是百忙之中抽不出时间的借口，其实是没有感情。Mature performance is to see through everything that was originally thought. Everything seems to be an excuse that you can't spare time in your busy schedule, but in fact you have no feelings.

不制造麻烦，也不麻烦别人，某种程度上来说,这是一种持戒。君子求诸己，小人求诸人；选择自己扛过去,不再愿意轻易去打扰别人,并不是性格要强,而是懂得了人生的不易,谁都会遇到自己的难处；圈子之内，人情之外，

Don't make trouble, don't trouble others, in a way, this is a kind of precept. The gentleman seeks himself, the villain seeks others; Choosing to carry on and no longer willing to disturb others easily is not a strong character, but understand that life is not easy, everyone will encounter their own difficulties; Inside the circle, outside the circle,