人与人之间的很多矛盾其实都是从傲慢中来的。都觉得自己比别人更高明，比别人更有见识，比别人更正确，于是相互轻视，矛盾也就逐渐生起。怎样才能消除矛盾呢？首先要学会把自己的心态放平，多看自己的缺点，多看别人的优点，让傲慢的心变得谦虚恭敬，内心世界改变外在世界自然变，所处的环境自然就融洽了。Life is already difficult enough,but we often make it even harder. If you believe in being kind and benevolenttowards others, give up negativity and embrace optimism, then you will havefound the correct way of living. We all are searching for happiness, but oftenlook for it in the wrong place. When we make mistakes, we can chooseimmediately to make the right choice; however, the hardest thing to do is admitour mistakes. But if we can admit we were wrong, and also change ourselves, wecan make deeper progress step-by-step.

——加措上师

人与人之间的很多矛盾其实都是从傲慢中来的。都觉得自己比别人更高明，比别人更有见识，比别人更正确，于是相互轻视，矛盾也就逐渐生起。怎样才能消除矛盾呢？首先要学会把自己的心态放平，多看自己的缺点，多看别人的优点，让傲慢的心变得谦虚恭敬，内心世界改变外在世界自然变，所处的环境自然就融洽了。Life is already difficult enough,but we often make it even harder. If you believe in being kind and benevolenttowards others, give up negativity and embrace optimism, then you will havefound the correct way of living. We all are searching for happiness, but oftenlook for it in the wrong place. When we make mistakes, we can chooseimmediately to make the right choice; however, the hardest thing to do is admitour mistakes. But if we can admit we were wrong, and also change ourselves, wecan make deeper progress step-by-step.

人与人之间的很多矛盾其实都是从傲慢中来的。都觉得自己比别人更高明，比别人更有见识，比别人更正确，于是相互轻视，矛盾也就逐渐生起。怎样才能消除矛盾呢？首先要学会把自己的心态放平，多看自己的缺点，多看别人的优点，让傲慢的心变得谦虚恭敬，内心世界改变外在世界自然变，所处的环境自然就融洽了。Life is already difficult enough,but we often make it even harder. If you believe in being kind and benevolenttowards others, give up negativity and embrace optimism, then you will havefound the correct way of living. We all are searching for happiness, but oftenlook for it in the wrong place. When we make mistakes, we can chooseimmediately to make the right choice; however, the hardest thing to do is admitour mistakes. But if we can admit we were wrong, and also change ourselves, wecan make deeper progress step-by-step.