眼泪女王｜E14

◎花絮照

When I look back on my life you gave me
There are only two things that are precious.
The memories of being loved and the memories of being loved
I can't lose all of this
I won't beg you to save me.
Let's just keep these memories
Please let me leave.

回过头去看你赠予我的这一生
宝贵的东西就只有两样
爱过的记忆 以及被爱的记忆
我不能失去他们
我不会求你让我活下去
只要 让我可以 完整地带着这些记忆离开就好

Sometimes, we think that they are very strong, can survive all the grievances. However, when the night falls, the hearts of those who bear the pain of a fragile, and who can understand it? When we close our eyes, the repressed emotions and hidden tears, only we can feel. In fact, we all know the emotional road will not be smooth, we have to face numerous difficulties and obstacles. But it is at times like these that we need to believe in ourselves and get through the hard times so that we can have a better tomorrow.

#摩登兄弟[超话]#

睡前突然想翻點書，從書架上取下那本買了很久卻一直沒好好閱讀的貝爾·胡克斯《關於愛的一切》（All About Love: New Visions）。

才沒讀幾頁就看到這句話：「要真正去愛，我們必須學著調和各種要素：關心、喜愛、認可、尊重、承諾、信任，以及坦誠的溝通。」

於是便想問問自己：
我關心他嗎？
我喜愛他嗎？
我認可他嗎？
我尊重他嗎？
我願意給予他承諾嗎？
我對他有信任嗎？
我願意與他進行坦誠的溝通嗎？

「愛是看一個人怎麼做。」同樣在書中的一句話。

說愛芋泥，是看這個人怎麼做。
很多時候，「感情投注」與「愛」常被混為一談。

既然如此，不如問問自己在對芋泥是否具備了愛的要素吧[給你小心心][給你小心心]