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重大文件,突然宣布!


这两天,辽宁省教育厅下发的一则文件,在网络上引起了空前的反响!包括我家宝宝所在的家长群都闹得不可开交。。。



具体的事情是这样的:


11月10日,辽宁省教育厅正式发布了《辽宁省义务教育阶段学生作业管理“十要求”》,其中对于微信群布置家庭作业、家长批改家庭作业和超纲超进度教学等热点问题提出了措施,“十要求”即日起执行。


其中“十要求”明确指出,教师必须亲自批改作业,严禁家长、学生代劳。对于不按时亲自批改作业的教师,一律取消职务晋级、评先评优资格,学校校长取消评先评优资格。


日盼夜盼,终于盼到了这一刻,无数饱受“ 辅导孩子作业之苦 ”的家长全都一片欢呼。。。真的,我不知道你们有没有看到这条消息,真的是网上现在一片支持声!无数网友都在点赞支持。。。


其中评论留言最多的,就是网友建议此举应该全国推广,希望全国各地都效仿辽宁,禁止老师在微信手机上布置家庭作业,给家长们“ 减负 ”。


这事,目前闹得沸沸扬扬!俨然已经变成了一场“ 全国讨伐老师偷懒 ”的告发大行动!!


我估计90%的读者看到这里,肯定都会觉得“ 大快人心 ”!!感觉胸中一口积压了多年的恶气,终于要解放出来了。。


但,事情真的就如此简单吗?!!


不!事情根本没有你们想象的那么简单,你们接着往下看:


1、家长们认为教育技能,本来就是教师的专业,但现在味道感觉全变了,不知从何时起,“ 教育 ”已经成了中国家长的必修技。


前几天,更是有一条“ 吐槽 ”的短视频火了;视频里面的家长激愤退出孩子的家长群,并发布一条短视频吐槽。


这位家长说:“我就退出家长群怎么了?”

“你们上课不用心教,下课叫我帮忙批改作业,那我要你们干什么?” 

“我那么有时间收群消息,我不会自己教吗?” 

“整天不是让我去报补习班,就是让我帮忙改作业,改完作业还要昧着良心说老师你辛苦了。”


句句真实,句句扎心,句句感同身受,于是迅速引发了全国家长的共鸣。


2、而就在一个月前的国庆前,还有一位男家长当众痛哭的视频也刷屏了。
这位成年男人,在家长会上被老师点名批评,因为他经常不能及时回复家长群里老师的信息。
然后,他就突然情绪失控了。
这个男人,需要养家糊口,家里要还房贷,要还车贷,不得不努力工作,经常加班,经常开会。
老师在家长群里发信息的时候,他经常在忙自己的工作,压根就看不过来。 

别留念昨天了,把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢,没人替你坚强。171. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想,那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会,你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡,但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人,就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本,并去倾情出演吧!177. I'd rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者,不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌,也要优雅的谢幕,感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don't let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧,见的世面多了,你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧,管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'! 一切皆有可能!“不可能”的意思是:“不,可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn't fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的,不管你的境遇如何,你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难,都要继续前进,因为只有你放弃的那一刻,你才输了。     When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin, she fell in love with Abdulfattah “John” Jandali, a Muslim teaching assistant from Syria. Jandali was the youngest of nine children in a prominent Syrian family. His father owned oil refineries and multiple other businesses, with large holdings in Damascus and Homs, and at one point pretty much controlled the price of wheat in the region. His mothe凝固的熔岩流。火星上常常有猛烈的大风,大风扬起沙尘能形成可以覆盖火星全球的特大型沙尘暴。每次沙尘暴可持续数个星期。火星两极的冰冠和火星大气中含有水份。从火星表面获得的探测数据证明,在远古时期,火星曾经有过液态的水,而且水量特别大。[51] 土星是离太阳第六颗行星,直径120536㎞,体积仅次于木星。主要由氢组成,还有少量的氦与微量元素,内部的核心包括岩石和冰,外围由数层金属氢和气体包裹着。地球距离土星13亿公里。土星的引力比地球强2.5倍,能够牵引太阳系内其它行星,使地球处于一个椭圆轨道中运行,并且与太阳保持适当距离,适宜生命繁衍。当土星轨道倾斜20度将使地球轨道比金星轨道更接近太阳,同时,这将导致火星完全离开太阳系。[52]  土星是已知唯一密度小于水的行星,假如能够将土星放入一个巨大的浴池之中,它将可以漂浮起来。土星有一个巨大的磁气圈和一个狂风肆虐的大气层,赤道附近的风速可达1800千米/时。在环绕土星运行的31颗卫星中间,土卫六是最大的一颗,比水星和月球还大,也是太阳系中唯一拥有浓厚大气层的卫星。[53] 天王星是离太阳第七颗行星,51118km。体积约为地球的65倍,在九大行星中仅次于木星和土星。天王星的大气层中83%是氢,15%为氦,2%为甲烷以及少量的乙炔和碳氢化合物。上层大气层的甲烷吸收红光,使天王星呈现蓝绿色。大气在固定纬度集结成云层,类似于木星和土星在纬线上鲜艳的条状色带。天王星云层的平均温度为零下193摄氏度。质量为8.6810±13×10²⁵kg,相当于地球质量的14.63倍。密度较小,只有1.24克/立方厘米,为海王星密度值的74.7%。[54] 恒星 恒星 海王星是离太阳的第八颗行星,直径49532千米。海王星绕太阳运转的轨道半径为45亿千米,公转一周需要165年。海王星的直径和天王星类似,质量比天王星略大一些。海王星和天王星的主要大气成分都是氢和氦,内部结构也极为相近,所以说海王星与天王星是一对孪生兄弟。[55]  海王星有太阳系最强烈的风,测量到的时速高达2100公里。海王星云顶的温度是-218 °C,是太阳系最冷的地区之一。海王星核心的温度约为7000 °C,可以和太阳的表面比较。海王星在1846年9月23日被发现,是唯一利用数学预测而非有计划的观测发现的行星。[56] 冥王星,位于海王星以外的柯伊伯带内侧,是柯伊伯带中已知的最大天体。[57]  直径约为2370±20km,是地球直径的18.5%。[58]  2006年8月24日,国际天文学联合会大会24日投票决定,不再将传统九大行星之一的冥王星视为行星,而将其列入“矮行星”。大会通过的决议规定,“行星”指的是围绕太阳运转、自身引力足以克服其刚体力而使天体呈圆球状、能够清除其轨道附近其他物体的天体。在太阳系传统的“九大行星”中,只有水星、金星、地球、火星、木星、土星、天王星和海王星符合这些要求。冥王星由于其轨道与海王星的轨道相交,不符合新的行星定义,因此被自动降级为“矮行星”。[59]  冥王星的表面温度大概在-238到-228℃之间。冥王星的成份由70%岩石和30%冰水混合而成的。地表上光亮的部分可能覆盖着一些固体氮以及少量 卫星拍月球经过地球,可见清晰月球背面 卫星拍月球经过地球,可见清晰月球背面 [60] 的固体甲烷和一氧化碳,冥王星表面的黑暗部分在运行中,那么这些行星的运行看上去会是什么情况呢?这一设想在他脑海里变得清晰起来了。一年里,哥白尼在不同的时间、不同的距离从地球上观察行星,每一个行星的情况都不相同,这是他意识到地球不可能位于星星轨道的中心。经过20年的观测,哥白尼发现唯独太阳的周年变化不明显。这意味着地球和太阳的距离始终没有改变。如果地球不是宇宙的中心,那么宇宙的中心就是太阳。的发现才使牛顿有能力确定运动定律和万有引力定律。哥白尼的日心宇宙体系既然是时代的产物,它就不能不受到时代的限制。反对神学的不彻底性,同时表现在哥白尼的某些观点上,他的体系是存在缺陷的。哥白尼所指的宇宙是局限在一个小的范围内的,具体来说,他的宇宙结构就是今天我们所熟知的太阳系,即以太阳为中心的天体系统。宇宙既然有它的中心,就必须有它的边界,哥白尼虽然否定了托勒玫的“九重天”,但他却保留了一层恒星天,尽管他回避了宇宙是否有限这个问题,但实际上他是相信恒星天球是宇宙的“外壳”,他仍然相信天体只能按照所谓完美的圆形轨道运动,所以哥白尼的宇宙体系,仍然包含着不动的中心天体。但是作为近代自然科学的奠基人,哥白尼的历史功绩是伟大的。确认地球不是宇宙的中心,而是行星之一,从而掀起了一场天文学上根本性的革命,是人类探求客观真理道路上的里程碑。哥白尼的伟大成就,不仅铺平了通向近代天文学的道路,而且开创了整个自然界科学向前迈进的新时代。从哥白尼时代起,脱离教会束缚的自然科学和哲学开始获得飞跃的发展。哥白尼的科学成就,是他所处时代的产物,又转过来推动了时代的发展。顺应时代变化 十五、六世纪的欧洲,正是从封建社会向资本主义社会转变的关键时期,在这一二百年间,社会发生了巨大的变化。14世纪ndali soon after. She held out hope, she would later tell family members, sometimes tearing up at the memory, that once they were married, she could get their 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧,见的世面多了,你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧,管它会怎样。baby boy back. Arthur Schieble died in August 1955, after the adoption was finalized. Just after Christmas that year, Joanne and Abdulfattah were married in St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Green Bay. He got his PhD in international politics the next year, and then they had another child, a girl named Mona. After she and Jandali divorced in 1962, Joanne embarked on a dreamy and peripatetic life that her daughter, who grew up to become the acclaimed novelist Mona Simpson, would capture in her book Anywhere but Here. Because Steve’s adoption had been closed, it would be twenty years before they would all find each other. Steve Jobs knew from an early age that he was adopted. “My parents were very open with me about that,” he recalled. He had a vivid memory of sitting on the lawn of his house, when he was six or seven years old, telling the girl who lived across the street. “So does that mean your real parents didn’t want you?” the girl asked. “Lightning bolts went off in my head,” according to Jobs. “I remember running into the house, crying. And my parents said, ‘No, you have to understand.’ They were very serious and looked me straight in the eye. They said, ‘We specifically picked you out.’ Both of my parents said that and repeated it slowly for me. And they put an emphasis on every word in that sentence.” Abandoned. Chosen. Special. Those concepts became part of who Jobs was and how he regarded himself. His closest friends think that the knowledge that he was given up at birth left some scars. “I think his desire for complete control of whatever he makes derives directly from his personality and the fact that he was abandoned at birth,” said one longtime colleague, Del Yocam. “He wants to control his environment, and he sees the product as an extension of himself.” Greg Calhoun, who became close to Jobs right after college, saw another effect. “Steve talked to me a lot about being abandoned and the pain that caused,” he said. “It made him independent. He followed the beat of a different drummer, and that came from being in a different world than he was born into.” Later in life, when he was the same age his biological father had been when he abandoned him, Jobs would father and abandon a child of his own. (He eventually took responsibility for her.) Chrisann Brennan, the mother of that child, said that being put up for adoption left Jobs “full of broken glass,” and it helps to explain some of his behavior. “He who is abandoned is an abandoner,” she said. Andy Hertzfeld, who worked with Jobs at Apple in the early 1980s, is among the few who remained close to both Brennan and Jobs. “The key question about Steve is why he can’t control himself at times from being so reflexively cruel and harmful to some people,” he said. “That goes back to being abandoned at birth. The real underlying problem was the theme of abandonment in Steve’s life.” Jobs dismissed this. “There’s some notion that because I was abandoned, I worked very hard so I could do well and make my parents wish they had me back, or some such nonsense, but that’s ridiculous,” he insisted. “Knowing I was adopted may have made me feel more independent, but I have never felt abandoned. I’ve always felt special. My parents made me feel special.” He would later bristle whenever anyone referred to Paul and Clara Jobs as his “adoptive” parents or implied that they were not his “real” parents. “They were my parents 1,000%,” he said. When speaking about his biological parents, on the other hand, he was curt: “They were my sperm and egg bank. That’s not harsh, it’s just the way it was, a sperm bank thing, nothing more.” Silicon Valley  The childhood that Paul and Clara Jobs created for their new son was, in many ways, a stereotype of the late 1950s. When Steve was two they adopted a girl they named Patty, and three years later they moved to a tract house in the suburbs. The finance company where Paul worked as a repo man, CIT, had transferred him down to its Palo Alto office, but he could not afford to live there, so they landed in a subdivision in Mountain View, a less expensive town just to the south. There Paul tried to pass along his love of mechanics and cars. “Steve, this is your workbench now,” he said as he marked off a section of the table in their garage. Jobs remembered being impressed by his father’s focus on craftsmanship. “I thought my dad’s sense of design was pretty good,” he said, “because he knew how to build anything. If we needed a cabinet, he would build it. When he built our fence, he gave me a hammer so I could work with him.” Fifty years later the fence still surrounds the back and side yards of the house in Mountain View. As Jobs showed it off to me, he caressed the stockade panels and recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly, even though they were hidden. “He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see.” His father continued to refurbish and resell used cars, and he festooned the garage with pictures of his favorites. He would point out the detailing of the design to his son: the lines, the vents, the chrome, the trim of the seats. After work each day, he would change into his dungarees and retreat to the garage, often with Steve tagging along. “I figured I could get him nailed down with a little mechanical ability, but he really wasn’t interested in getting his hands dirty,” Paul later recalled. “He never really cared too much about m189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力,才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车,只有不断前进,才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心,最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉,并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用,就是让你快乐加倍,痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时,整个宇宙都会来帮忙。echanical things.” “I wasn’t that into fixing cars,” Jobs admitted. “But I was eager to hang out with my dad.” Even as he was growing more aware that he had been adopted, he was becoming more attached to his father. One day when he was about eight, he discovered a photograph of his father from his time in the Coast Guard. “He’s in the engine room, and he’s got his shirt off and looks like James Dean. It was one of those Oh wow moments for a kid. Wow, oooh, my parents were actually once very young and really good-looking.” Through cars, his father gave Steve his first exposure to electronics. “My dad did not have a deep understanding of electronics, but he’d encountered it a lot in automobiles and other things he would fix. He showed me the rudiments of electronics, and I got very interested in that.” Even more interesting were the trips to scavenge for parts. “Every weekend, there’d be a junkyard trip. We’d be looking for a generator, a carburetor, all sorts of components.” He remembered watching his father negotiate at the counter. “He was a good bargainer, because he knew better than the guys at the counter what the parts should cost.” This helped fulfill the pledge his parents made when he was adopted. “My college fund came from my dad paying $50 for a Ford Falcon or some other beat-up car that didn’t run, working on it for a few weeks, and selling it for $250—and not telling the IRS.” The Jobses’ house and the others in their neighborhood were built by the real estate developer Joseph Eichler, whose company spawned more than eleven thousand homes in various California subdivisions between 1950 and 1974. Inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision of simple modern homes for the American “everyman,” Eichler built inexpensive houses that featured floor-to-ceiling glass walls, open floor plans, exposed post-and-beam construction, concrete slab floors, and lots of sliding glass doors. “Eichler did a great thing,” Jobs said on one of our walks around the neighborhood. “His houses were smart and cheap and good. They brought clean design and simple taste to lower-income people. They had awesome little features, like radiant heating in the floors. You put carpet on them, and we had nice toasty floors when we were kids.” Jobs said that his appreciation for Eichler homes instilled in him a passion for making nicely designed products for the mass market. “I love it when you can bring really great design and simple capability to something that doesn’t cost much,” he said as he pointed out the clean elegance of the houses. “It was the original vision for Apple. That’s what we tried to do with the first Mac. That’s what we did with the iPod.” Across the street from the Jobs family lived a man who had become successful as a real estate agent. “He wasn’t that bright,” Jobs recalled, “but he seemed to be making a fortune. So my dad thought, ‘I can do that.’ He worked so hard, I remember. He took these night classes, passed the license test, and got into real estate. Then the bottom fell out of the market.” As a result, the family found itself financially strapped for a year or so while Steve was in elementary school. His mother took a job as a bookkeeper for Varian Associates, a company that made scientific instruments, and they took out a second mortgage. One day his fourth-grade teacher asked him, “What is it you don’t understand about the universe?” Jobs replied, “I don’t understand why all of a sudden my dad is so broke.” He was proud that his father never adopted a servile attitude or slick style that may have made him a better salesman. “You had to suck up to people to sell real estate, and he wasn’t good at that and it wasn’t in his nature. I admired him for that.” Paul Jobs went back to being a mechanic. His father was calm and gentle, traits that his son later praised more than emulated. He was also resolute. Jobs described one exampl What made the neighborhood different from the thousands of other spindly-tree subdivisions across America was that even the ne’er-do-wells tended to be engineers. “When we moved here, there were apricot and plum orchards on all of these corners,” Jobs recalled. “But it was beginning to boom because of military investment.” He soaked up the history of the valley and developed a yearning to play his own role. Edwin Land of Polaroid later told him about being asked by Eisenhower to help build the U-2 spy plane cameras to see how real the Soviet threat was. The film was dropped in canisters and returned to the NASA Ames Research Center in Sunnyvale, not far from where Jobs lived. “The first computer terminal I ever saw was when my dad brought me to the Ames Center,” he said. “I fell totally in love with it.” Other defense contractors sprouted nearby during the 1950s. The Lockheed Missiles and Space Division, which built submarine-launched ballistic missiles, was founded in 1956 next to the NASA Center; by the time Jobs moved to the area four years later, it employed twenty thousand people. A few hundred yards away, Westinghouse built facilities that produced tubes and electrical transformers for the missile systems. “You had all these military companies on the cutting edge,” he recalled. “It was mysterious and high-tech and made living here very exciting.” In the wake of the defense industries there arose a booming economy based on technology. Its roots stretched back to 1938, when David Packard and his new wife moved into a house in Palo Alto that had a shed where his friend Bill Hewlett was soon ensconced. The house had a garage—an appendage that would prove both useful and iconic in the valley—in which they tinkered around until they had their first product, an audio oscillator. By the 1950s, Hewlett-Packard was a fast-growing company making technical instruments. Fortunately there was a place nearby for entrepreneurs who had outgrown their garages. In a move that would help transform the area into the cradle of the tech revolution, Stanford University’s dean of engineering, Frederick Terman, created a seven-hundred-acre industrial park on university land for private companies that could commercialize the ideas of his students. Its first tenant was Varian Associates, where Clara Jobs worked. “Terman came up with this great idea that did more than anything to cause the tech industry to grow up here,” Jobs said. By the time Jobs was ten, HP had nine thousand employees and was the blue-chip company where every engineer seeking financial stability wanted to work. The most important technology for the region’s growth was, of course, the semiconductor. William Shockley, who had been one of the inventors of the transistor at Bell Labs in New Jersey, moved out to Mountain View and, in 1956, started a company to build transistors using silicon rather than the more expensive germanium that was then commonly used. But Shockley became increasingly erratic and abandoned his silicon transistor project, which led eight of his engineers—most notably Robert Noyce and Gordon Moore—to break away to form Fairchild Semiconductor. That company grew to twelve thousand employees, but it fragmented in 1968, when Noyce lost a power struggle to become CEO. He took Gordon Moore and founded a company that they called Integrated Electronics Corporation, which they soon smartly abbreviated to Intel. Their third employee was Andrew Grove, who later would grow the company by shifting its focus from memory chips to microprocessors. Within a few years there would be more than fifty companies in the area making semiconductors. The exponential growth of this industry was correlated with the phenomenon famously discovered by Moore, who in 1965 drew a graph of the speed of integrated circuits, based on the number of transistors that could be placed on a chip, and showed that it doubled about every two years, a trajectory that could be expected to continue. This was reaffirmed in 1971, when Intel was able to etch a complete central processing unit onto one chip, the Intel 4004, tronic amplifier. “So I raced home, and I told my dad that he was wrong.” “No, it needs an amplifier,” his father assured him. When Steve protested otherwise, his father said he was crazy. “It can’t work without an amplifier. There’s some trick.” “I kept saying no to my dad, telling him he had to see it, and finally he actually walked down with me and saw it. And he said, ‘Well I’ll be a bat out of hell.’” Jobs recalled the incident vividly because it was his first realization that his father did not know everything. Then a more disconcerting discovery began to dawn on him: He was smarter than his parents. He had always admired his father’s competence and savvy. “He was not an educated man, but I had always thought he was pretty damn smart. He didn’t read much, but he could do a lot. Almost everything mechanical, he could figure it out.” Yet the carbon microphone incident, Jobs said, began a jarring process of realizing that he was in fact more clever and quick than his parents. “It was a very big moment that’s burned into my mind. When I realized that I was smarter than my parents, I felt tremendous shame for having thought that. I will never forget that moment.” This discovery, he later told friends, along with the fact that he was adopted, made him feel apart—detached and separate—from both his family and the world. Another layer of awareness occurred soon after. Not only did he discover that he was brighter than his parents, but he discovered that they knew this. Paul and Clara Jobs were loving parents, and they were willing to adapt their lives to suit a son who was very smart—and also willful. They would go to great lengths to accommodate him. And soon Steve discovered this fact as well. “Both my parents got me. They felt a lot of responsibility once they sensed that I was special. They found ways to keep feeding me stuff and putting me in better schools. They were willing to defer to my needs.” So he grew up not only with a sense of having once been abandoned, but also with a sense that he was special. In his own mind, that was more important in the formation of his personality. School Even before Jobs started elementary school, his mother had taught him how to read. This, however, led to some problems once he got to school. “I was kind of bored for the first few years


男儿有泪不轻弹,如今区区一个家长群能把一个大老爷们逼得当众痛哭,这压力到底是有多大。 


今天的中国家长忙碌一天回家之后,还要辅导孩子功课,还要给孩子批改作业,节假日甚至还要给孩子做手工。 


3、为了防止家长们应付差事,老师们想出了种种手段来约束家长。

下面是一个普通小学生在普通的一天里的语文作业,共有7项,其中6项需要拍视频上传。 
家长弄完这6个视频,就至少1个小时以上没了,而这仅仅只是语文作业而已,且只是一天的语文作业。
每天晚上,家长回家做完饭,额外花在辅导孩子功课上的时间,至少2~3个小时起步。
 一位爸爸质问老师:到底你们是老师,还是我们家长是老师?   
有些学校,甚至要求家长轮流来学校做卫生,连保洁阿姨的费用都给省了。 
甭管你在外面年薪是5万还是50万,只要孩子入了这个学校,统统都得给学校免费打扫卫生,美其名曰亲子活动。
在老师的权威下,家长们无可奈何,还要在家长群里花式拍老师各种肉麻的马屁。 
天天喊着减负减负,减了十年了。
学生的负担没减,家长的负担更重了。
回头一看,原来是减老师和学校的负。

生气归生气!我不知道,你们看完上面的吐槽,冷静下来之后,心里会不会还有其他的一些感觉?!


怪学校?怪老师?抱怨自己太累?这其实都只是表面上你们看得到、或者说让你们看得懂的逻辑;这些都仅仅只是表面现象而已!


背后真正隐藏的东西,你们很多人压根就没有发现!

教育其实才是我们穷人翻身的“救命稻草”
读书使人进步,一个人聪明、进步的表现;就是要懂得不要“ 人云亦云”,懂得独立思考,懂得剥茧抽丝、透过现象看本质。
这些年,中国开始学习欧美的素质教育,也称之为快乐教育,核心奥义就是减负。
天天死读书,这不对,抹杀了孩子的创造力,孩子们就应该好好玩,只有好好玩的孩子才能释放天性,长大了才能成为爱因斯坦。
美国之所以有那么多科学家,就是因为美国实行的是素质教育,孩子们每天下午3点就放学了,其他时间一律玩,所以长大了才那么具备创造力。
这套理论真的是很奇葩,你这么喜欢玩,咋不回深山老林里当野人呢,一天到晚玩个够。
黑猩猩最适合当爱因斯坦了,长大了个个都能是人才。
今天中国的小学,下午普遍4点就放学了,周五的时候下午3点放学,很多还要求家长必须接送。
放学之后,就是玩。
给孩子布置作业,其实是负责任的老师才会做的。
如果你不想让孩子玩废了,那就必须给孩子上兴趣班,或者按照老师的要求,自行在家给孩子辅导作业。
这些作业是你自己辅导的,和老师无关,老师没有违背教育局的要求,至少从明面上孩子减负了。
为了让孩子不落后于人,家长们拿出了天文数字的钱上课外补习班,晚上还要抽出大量的时间给孩子辅导功课。 
这导致了一个严重的问题,一个孩子的存在就会占用一个家长6~8个小时以上的时间,而且是每天占用。
早上接送,会导致这个家长9点才能到公司上班,下午接送,会导致这个家长3点就必须要下班,周五的时候甚至下午2点就要走。
晚上的时候,这个家长要陪孩子上兴趣班,要辅导功课,周末的时候还有兴趣班。
带孩子,已经成了一个职业,严重消耗时间精力的职业。
你选择了带孩子,就基本不可能再去上班,双职工家庭就必须有一个人选择辞职,通常都是薪水较低的那一个。
因为中国传统的女低男高式婚配背景,以及母性的存在,大量很有能力的女性,就这么被迫离开了工作岗位。
按这种带娃法,即便是家庭妇女专职带娃,都不可能带两个娃。
两份接送任务,两份不同的兴趣班,两份不同的家庭辅导作业,这根本不可能由一个人来完成。
如果父母两人都辞职专门带娃,那一家老小吃什么?
这一切,都是因为减负教育。
但减负,只是减公立学校的负,私立贵族学校则执行完全不同的政策。
能上贵族学校的孩子,他们的家长年收入都很高,根本没时间每天晚上给孩子辅导功课,也没时间天天接送,没时间带孩子上兴趣班,更没时间在节假日按老师的要求给孩子做什么手工艺品。
那怎么办?
所以私立贵族学校不减负,学校直接把所有的学习任务给压满。
很多贵族小学,甚至是寄宿制,学校从头包到尾,晚饭后的一切活动都由生活老师负责,而且搞的非常专业,符合教育的科学理念。
别说什么很难,只要你肯出钱,没什么难的。
人家所谓的快乐教育,是晚饭后骑骑马,培训下社交礼仪,而不是单纯的玩。
男生击剑,网球,骑马,女生绘画,舞蹈,钢琴。
不用再花钱上兴趣班,你能想到的这里都有。
 
而且玩完这些“娱乐活动”之后,还得做作业,越高级的私立学校抓的越严。
素质教育起源于欧美,但仅仅起源于欧美的公立学校。
英国的公立中小学一般是早上9点到校,下午3点30分离校,国家明文规定儿童每天的学校时间不得超过6小时。
美国的公立中小学上午8点45到校,下午3点15离校,中午1小时午餐,不得给孩子布置作业,一天总共是5.5小时的学习时间。
而英美的私立学校,每天早上6点半起床,下午5点才放学,晚上还布置了一大堆作业,极其类似中国以前的公立学校。 
这些贵族学校里流传着这么一句话:“4小时睡眠、4杯咖啡、GPA4.0”
意思就是如果你想拿到GPA4分的成绩,那你每天只能睡4小时,困了就要喝4大杯咖啡。
中国的高考工厂,也就不过如此。
很多私立贵族学校,不收废物,明文规定只有在GCSE考试中拿到6个A,才能进入下一级学习,否则就要留级。
连续两年留级,就必须强制退学,给再多钱都没用。
因为留这样的孩子,会影响整个学校的声誉,反正学校是私立的,想让谁退学就让谁退学。
所以这些学校的孩子,学习压力非常之大。
而那些按照法律法规,不允许孩子退学的公立学校,则执行一个教育的保底工作。
但也只是保底而已。
微软创始人比尔·盖茨在电视节目《奥普拉秀》上说在美国的公立学校里,只有1/3的人准备读大学,非白人学生中有一半会辍学。
在美国的素质教育下,教出的是一群连两位数加减法都要按计算器的学渣,近乎和现代社会绝缘。
美国有一半的人,坚定的认为地球是平的。
特朗普曾经对记者说,把消毒剂注射进血管,也许可以消灭新冠病毒。
这么反智的话,很多美国人居然信了,这就是美国素质教育教出来的“人才”。 
英美的素质教育,本质上是一种愚民教育,所以才会有每天学习时间不得超过6小时这种奇葩规定。
那他们为什么还要这样做呢?并且鼓励这样做呢???
因为世界上的精英岗位是有限的。
不管你这个国家再发达,都一定要有很多人去从事低端的体力和服务工作,否则整个社会就会崩溃。
不是你,就是他,反正总得有人去干这个活,不可能人人都坐办公室的。
高层的精英们巴不得你自己放弃“ 子女读书的权利 ”、“ 教育的权利 ”;以达到他们想要的目的!!
低收入的就世世辈辈一直低收入,干苦力的就一直干苦力;这就是欧美教育理念最后想达到的最终目的 。
当然,他们也不敢明目张胆的这样做!(剥夺穷人孩子的教育权利)
所以教育免费,义务教育,基本上各个国家都在做;哪怕是欧美也不敢说教育大收费,让穷人上不起学这种话。
但是,穷人的孩子上公立学校,一切免费,每天只学6个小时,其他时间玩玩玩。
长大了之后你认为地球是平的也好,你认为消毒水可以杀病毒也罢,你不会算两位数的加减法那也无所谓,你有一把力气可以搬砖就行了。
至于精英的孩子,你愿意上公立,那就上,不愿意上公立,就自费去那些昂贵的私立学校。
学成什么样,那是你们自己的事,和国家无关。
这就是欧美的教育观念,初始出发点,就没打算把穷人的孩子培育成才。就没打算让穷人翻身!!
这个世界就是如此的神奇;有时候你们眼镜看到的东西,其实根本就不是“ 真相 ”,那只是人家想让你看到的真相而已。。。


写在最后:
欧美的资本主义体制,信奉物竞天择,这么做完全符合他们的价值观,一点问题都没有。
但我们中国不是。
中国属于穷苦大众的国家,我们所有人都应该享有教育权。
不是那种玩玩玩的敷衍式教育权,而是能把孩子培养成才,鲤鱼跃龙门,彻底翻身的正规教育权。
有钱人的孩子,可以把孩子送到私立,哪怕留在公立,也可以招大学生兼职替自己辅导孩子功课,甚至冒名顶替自己在家长群里,丝毫不耽误孩子的教育。
但穷人怎么办?那些小学文化、初中文化;根本无力辅导孩子的家长们又怎么办??
时至今日,我依然记得我高中毕业那年;因为交不起读大学的学费,我毅然而然的背上铁锤,铲子;跟父亲一起每天爬山一个多钟,去山上一起挖矿;自己赚学费!
傍晚下山的时候,再背着几十斤“ 石头 ”,慢慢下山。背不动,就歇一会再背!
日复一日...
至今,每每看到现在脚腕上,当时被矿石砸裂骨留下的疤痕;我都无比庆幸,年少的自己当时做了一个非常非常聪明的选择!
读书!学习!就是我走出小山村,能到大城市立足的最大原因。。
15年前,我认为读书是我唯一能走出去的“ 捷径 ”;15年后的今天,我把这句话送给你们!
拒绝家长群,拒绝辅导作业,拒绝这种敷衍式的教育,早就应该这样干!这事关我们所有普通中国人的利益。
孩子要想教育成才,光靠家长,是万万不行的。老师的付出、老师的技能、老师的真心教育,才应该是重中之重!!
现在完全就是本末倒置!!
我们每一个中国人!
不管是富裕、还是贫穷,都理应拥有教育权,因为我们是社会主义国家

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