90个演讲打卡之五:
一个黑人青年男性的演讲,当被别人伤害或拒绝时,该怎么面对?他本人的经历是,因为成绩优异,中学时被黑人同学们排斥,认为其言行举止像黑人,是个书呆子。 大学时有望进入NFL,但不幸得了背部疾病,运动生涯破灭,一度想自杀,进过精神病院。
他的演讲有两点:①把rejection看作projection(投射)。当某个人或团体拒绝你或嘲笑你时,不是你自己的问题,其实是投射出了他人内心的混乱,他们在感到不安,因为你太独特了,而他们太平庸,你比他们优秀得多,一群苍蝇自然会排斥一个天鹅。
②把rejection看作protection。 因为某种缺陷等原因,你的某个生涯没有希望了,这恰恰是在保护你,防止你不要进入不适合你的领域,说明你应该进入新的领域。 有点司马迁受宫刑而著史记的意思。
另外值得一提的是,演讲者的演讲本身也很有感染力。
一个黑人青年男性的演讲,当被别人伤害或拒绝时,该怎么面对?他本人的经历是,因为成绩优异,中学时被黑人同学们排斥,认为其言行举止像黑人,是个书呆子。 大学时有望进入NFL,但不幸得了背部疾病,运动生涯破灭,一度想自杀,进过精神病院。
他的演讲有两点:①把rejection看作projection(投射)。当某个人或团体拒绝你或嘲笑你时,不是你自己的问题,其实是投射出了他人内心的混乱,他们在感到不安,因为你太独特了,而他们太平庸,你比他们优秀得多,一群苍蝇自然会排斥一个天鹅。
②把rejection看作protection。 因为某种缺陷等原因,你的某个生涯没有希望了,这恰恰是在保护你,防止你不要进入不适合你的领域,说明你应该进入新的领域。 有点司马迁受宫刑而著史记的意思。
另外值得一提的是,演讲者的演讲本身也很有感染力。
真理和人性之关系,有时就如同蹩脚的合作,显得既包容又排斥,总是难以真正融洽。
顺其自然,往往是不得已而为之。
不管出于何因,一切有解。
视野决定格局。
The relation between the truth and human nature is as the lame cooperation sometimes, appears both inclusive and rejective, being always hard to be harmonized really.
It's usually what to be behaved helplessly that let everything be followed in the nature laws.
Out of whatever kind of cause, everything is always able to be found of logically solved methods.
The cognized extent and acceptable result to affairs is up to the personal horizons.
顺其自然,往往是不得已而为之。
不管出于何因,一切有解。
视野决定格局。
The relation between the truth and human nature is as the lame cooperation sometimes, appears both inclusive and rejective, being always hard to be harmonized really.
It's usually what to be behaved helplessly that let everything be followed in the nature laws.
Out of whatever kind of cause, everything is always able to be found of logically solved methods.
The cognized extent and acceptable result to affairs is up to the personal horizons.
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当你自视为不求同“不同流合污” 走自己的路时
其实
你仍然走在另一条逐渐变大众化的路上
另一条 “同流合污”的路而已
。。。
The hipster effect: Why anti-conformists always end up looking the same
Complexity science explains why efforts to reject the mainstream merely result in a new conformity.
by Emerging Technology from the arXiv
February 28, 2019
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当你自视为不求同“不同流合污” 走自己的路时
其实
你仍然走在另一条逐渐变大众化的路上
另一条 “同流合污”的路而已
。。。
The hipster effect: Why anti-conformists always end up looking the same
Complexity science explains why efforts to reject the mainstream merely result in a new conformity.
by Emerging Technology from the arXiv
February 28, 2019
...
...
...
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