169. Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了，把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢，没人替你坚强。171. If you don\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想，那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会，你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡，但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人，就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本，并去倾情出演吧！177. I\\\\\\\\\\\\\'d rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者，不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌，也要优雅的谢幕，感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，见的世面多了，你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧，管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says \\\\\\\\\\\\\'I\\\\\\\\\\\\\'m possible\\\\\\\\\\\\\'! 一切皆有可能！“不可能”的意思是：“不，可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的，不管你的境遇如何，你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难，都要继续前进，因为只有你放弃的那一刻，你才输了。 When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So 颗普通的行星，但它在许多方面都是独一无二的。比如，它是太阳系中唯一一颗面积大部分被水覆盖的行星，也是目前所知唯一一颗有生命存在的 Arthur Schieble died in August 1955, after the adoption was finalized. Just after Christmas that year, Joanne and Abdulfattah were married in St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Green Bay. He got his PhD in international politics the next year, and then they had another child, a girl named Mona. After she and Jandali divorced in 1962, Joanne embarked on a dreamy and peripatetic life that her daughter, who grew up to become the acclaimed novelist Mona Simpson, would capture in her book Anywhere but Here. Because Steve’s adoption had been closed, it would be twenty years before they would all find each other. Steve Jobs knew from an early age that he was adopted. “My parents were very open with me about that,” he recalled. He had a vivid memory of sitting on the lawn of his house, when he was six or seven years old, telling the girl who lived across the street. “So does that mean your real parents didn’t want you?” the girl asked. “Lightning bolts went off in my head,” according to Jobs. “I remember running into the house, crying. And my parents said, ‘No, you have to understand.’ They were very serious and looked me straight in the eye. They said, ‘We specifically picked you out.’ Both of my parents said that and repeated it slowly for me. And they put an emphasis on every word in that sentence.” Abandoned. Chosen. Special. Those concepts became part of who Jobs was and how he regarded himself. His closest friends think that the knowledge that he was given up at birth left some scars. “I think his desire for complete control of whatever he makes derives directly from his personality and the fact that he was abandoned at birth,” said one longtime colleague, Del Yocam. “He wants to control his environment, and he sees the product as an extension of himself.” Greg Calhoun, who became close to Jobs right after college, saw another effect. “Steve talked to me a lot about being abandoned and the pain that caused,” he said. “It made him independent. He followed the beat of a different drummer, and that came from being in a different world than he was born into.” Later in life, when he was the same age his biological father had been when he abandoned him, Jobs would father and abandon a child of his own. (He eventually took responsibility for her.) Chrisann Brennan, the mother of that child, said that being put up for adoption left Jobs “full of broken glass,” and it helps to explain some of his behavior. “He who is abandoned is an abandoner,” she said. Andy Hertzfeld, who worked with Jobs at Apple in the early 1980s, is among the few who remained close to both Brennan and Jobs. “The key question about Steve is why he can’t tty good,” he said, “because he knew how to build anything. If we needed a cabinet, he would build it. When he built our fence, he gave me a hammer so I could work with him.” Fifty years later the fence still surrounds the back and side yards of the house in Mountain View. As Jobs showed it off to me, he caressed the stockade panels and recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly, even though they were hidden. “He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see.” His father continued to refurbish and resell used cars, and he festooned the garage with pictures of his favorites. He would point out the detailing of the design to his son: the lines, the vents, the chrome, the trim of the seats. After work each day, he would change into his dungarees and retreat to the garage, often with Steve tagging along. “I figured I could get him nailed down with a little mechanical ability, but he really wasn’t interested in getting his hands dirty,” Paul later recalled. “He never really cared too much about m189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力，才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车，只有不断前进，才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You\\\\\\\\\\\\\'ll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心，最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉，并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用，就是让你快乐加倍，痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时，整个宇宙都会来帮忙。echanical things.” “I wasn’t that into fixing cars,” Jobs admitted. “But I was eager to hang out with my dad.” Even as he was growing more aware that he had been adopted, he was becoming more attached to his father. One day when he was about eight, he discovered a photograph of his father from his time in the Coast Guard. “He’s in the engine room, and he’s got his shirt off and looks like James Dean. It was one of those Oh wow moments for a kid. Wow, oooh, my parents were actually once very young and really good-looking.” Through cars, his father gave Steve his first exposure to electronics. “My dad did not have a deep understanding of electronics, but he’d encountered it a lot in automobiles and other things he would fix. He showed me the rudiments of electronics, and I got very interested in that.” Even more interesting were the trips to scavenge for parts. “Every weekend, there’d be a junkyard trip. We’d be looking for a generator, a carburetor, all sorts of components.” He remembered watching his father negotiate at the counter. “He was a good bargainer, because he knew better than the guys at the counter what the parts should cost.” This helped fulfill the pledge his parents made when he was adopted. “My college fund came from my dad paying $50 for a Ford Falcon or some other beat-up car that didn’t run, working on it for a few weeks, and selling it for $250—and not telling the IRS.” The Jobses’ house and the others in their neighborhood were built by the real estate developer Joseph Eichler, whose company spawned more than eleven thousand homes in various California subdivisions between 1950 and 1974. Inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision of simple modern homes for the American “everyman,” Eichler built inexpensive houses that featured floor-to-ceiling glass walls, open floor plans, exposed post-and-beam construction, concrete slab floors, and lots of sliding glass doors. “Eichler did a great thing,” Jobs said on one of our walks around the neighborhood. “His houses were smart and cheap and good. They brought clean design and simple taste to lower-income people. They had awesome little features, like radiant heating in the floors. You put carpet on them, and we had nice toasty floors when we were kids.” Jobs said that his appreciation for Eichler homes instilled in him a passion for making nicely designed products for the mass market. “I love it when you can bring really great design and simple capability to something that doesn’t cost much,” he said as he pointed out the clean elegance of the houses. “It was the original vision for Apple. That’s what we tried to do with the first Mac. That’s what we did with the iPod.” Across the street from the Jobs family lived a man who had become successful as a real estate agent. “He wasn’t that bright,” Jobs recalled, “but he seemed to be making a fortune. So my dad thought, ‘I can do that.’ He worked so hard, I remember. He took these night classes, passed the license test, and got into real estate. Then the bottom fell out of the market.” As a result, the family found itself financially strapped for a year or so while Steve was in elementary school. His mother took a job as a bookkeeper for Varian Associates, a company that made scientific instruments, and they took out a second mortgage. One day his fourth-grade teacher asked him, “What is it you don’t understand about the universe?” Jobs replied, “I don’t understand why all of a sudden my dad is so broke.” He was proud that his father never adopted a servile attitude or slick style that may have made him a better salesman. “You had to suck up to people to sell real estate, and he wasn’t good at that and it wasn’t in his nature. I admired him for that.” Paul Jobs went back to being a mechanic. His father was calm and gentle, traits that his son later praised more than emulated. He was also resolute. Jobs described one exampl What made the neighborhood different from the thousands of other spindly-tree subdivisions across America was that even the ne’er-do-wells tended to be engineers. “When we moved here, thegh-tech and made living here very exciting.” In the wake of the defense industries there arose a booming economy based on technology. Its roots stretched back to 1938, when David Packard and his new wife moved into a house in Palo Alto that had a shed where his friend Bill Hewlett was soon ensconced. The house had a garage—an appendage that would prove both useful and iconic in the valley—in which they tinkered around until they had their first product, an audio oscillator. By the 1950s, Hewlett-Packard was a fast-growing company making technical instruments. Fortunately there was a place nearby for entrepreneurs who had outgrown their garages. In a move that would help transf The most important technology for the region’s growth was, of course, the semiconductor. William Shockley, who had been one of the inventors of the transistor at Bell Labs in New Jersey, moved out to Mountain View and, in 1956, started a company to build transistors using silicon rather than the more expensive germanium that was then commonly used. But Shockley became increasingly erratic and abandoned his silicon transistor project, which led eight of his engineers—most notably Robert Noyce and Gordon Moore—to break away to form Fairchild Semiconductor. That company grew to twelve thousand employees, but it fragmented in 1968, when Noyce lost a power struggle to become CEO. He took Gordon Moore and founded a company that they called Integrated Electronics Corporation, which they soon smartly abbreviated to Intel. Their third employee was Andrew Grove, who later would grow the company by shifting its focus from memory chips to microprocessors. Within a few years there would be more than fifty companies in the area making semiconductors. The exponential growth of this industry was correlated with the phenomenon famously discovered by Moore, who in 1965 drew a graph of the speed of integrated circuits, based on the number of transistors that could be placed on a chip, and showed that it doubled about every two years, a trajectory that could be expected to continue. This was reaffirmed in 1971, when Intel was able to etch a complete central processing unit onto one chip, the Intel 4004, tronic amplifier. “So I raced home, and I told my dad that he was wrong.” “No, it needs an amplifier,” his father assured him. When Steve protested otherwise, his father said he was crazy. “It can’t work without an amplifier. There’s some trick.” “I kept saying no to my dad, telling him he had to see it, and finally he actually walked down with me and saw it. And he said, ‘Well I’ll be a bat out of hell.’” Jobs recalled the incident vividly because it was his first realization that his father did not know everything. Then a more disconcerting discovery began to dawn on him: He was smarter than his parents. He had always admired his father’s competence and savvy. “He was not an educated man, but I had always thought he was pretty damn smart. He didn’t read much, but he could do a lot. Almost everything mechanical, he could figure it out.” Yet the carbon microphone incident, Jobs said, began a jarring process of realizing that he was in fact more clever and quick than his parents. “It was a very big moment that’s burned into my mind. When I realized that I was smarter than my parents, I felt tremendous shame for having thought that. I will never forget that moment.” This discovery, he later told friends, along with the fact that he was adopted, made him feel apart—detached and separate—from both his family and the world. Another layer of awareness occurred soon after. Not only did he discover that he was brighter than his parents, but he discovered that they knew this. Paul and Clara Jobs were loving parents, and they were willing to adapt their lives to suit a son who was very smart—and also willful. They would go to great lengths to accommodate him. And soon Steve discovered this fact as well. “Both my parents got me. They felt a lot of responsibility once they sensed that I was special. They found ways to keep feeding me stuff and putting me in better schools. They were willing to defer to my needs.” So he grew up not only with a sense of having once been abandoned, but also with a sense that he was special. In his own mind, that was more important in the formation of his personality. School Even before Jobs started elementary school, his mother had taught him how to read. This, however, led to some problems once he got to school. “I was kind of bored for the first few year
5年前我刚从事新媒体工作不久，发生了“吴亦凡X粉事件”。
一个女粉丝被吴亦凡用不正当手段发生性关系之后，到网上痛诉和维权，并把一些音频和图片发到了网上。
当时我看不惯这个现象，在网上随便说了几句“不够正面”的评价，立刻遭到大批吴亦凡粉丝的围攻和谩骂。
那个时候的舆论环境是怎么样的呢？
就是：明星和粉丝发生性关系就是巨大的福利，只要他长得帅，只要他有名气，不管是采取什么样的方式，反正对粉丝就是巨大的福利。
别人想要这个福利还没有，你有了这个福利还不满足，有什么可委屈的？
吴亦凡的粉丝发起超话，相关阅读有2.8亿，而名字就是“撑你到底吴亦凡”。
还有“守护吴亦凡”的话题，某品牌毫不犹豫地站到了吴亦凡这边。马薇薇说：“还有什么比明星X粉更好的福利么？我马不停蹄地关注了贵偶像，并不知为何觉得早晚有一天会赚到。”六六说：长得那么好看，还要哄人，陪睡完还要背叛。女的也是贱，明明是炮友，还想睡出个青史留名来。要是把我们凡凡吓着了，毁了多少女粉丝的福利？甚至还有某大V撰文：偶像怎么解决性需求？吴亦凡告诉你到底有多难？还有某博主公然写到：要是一个明星再也不X粉了，是谁的损失？是你的，是我的，也是我们全人类的。
不知道你看完这些言论是什么样的感受，当时我看完这些人的言论，真的是三观炸裂了。一个明星只要长得帅，只要有名气，就可以随意约炮、X粉丝，而且还是对粉丝的福利，这简直是整个价值观都要崩塌了。明星发生这样的恶臭事件，品牌方说，要守护最好的凡凡，粉丝说，这是对女方巨大的福利，大V说：单身偶像愿意X粉跟活菩萨有什么区别？你想，如果你是偶像本人，所有人都这样评价你，你会怎么做？是不是更加肆无忌惮地约炮，X粉，私生活更加糜烂和淫乱？因为每个人都在夸我，每个人都在追捧我，即使我发生恶臭的事情，别人还觉得是福利，所以我更加疯狂和嚣张。他们演技差有粉丝尬吹，作品差有粉丝挽尊，人品差还有人来洗白说这是福利，你要是吐槽下他们的作品与演技，还有粉丝来下场来和你撕逼。你想想如果你长久生活在这样一个信息茧房里面，会诞生出什么样的怪物？还记得《皇帝的新衣》中那个每天被夸奖的皇帝，他知道自己是裸奔出来的吗？所以，这样很有可能就会诞生出一个人渣，极度危险和极度膨胀的人渣，他们手中握有重大权利和资源，而且根本不会意识到自己是一个人渣，继而造成更坏的影响。所以，当初都美竹说出“吴亦凡他们到处搜索年轻漂亮的女孩，并且像选妃一样去侵占年轻女性，连幼女都不放过”，我真的一点都不奇怪。所以，吴亦凡被指认涉嫌强奸女孩，一时之间有十几个女孩站出来指证他，我也一点都不奇怪。五年之前吴亦凡X粉的时候，人人都说这是福利，从品牌到各路大V都是一通夸赞，到现在变成了完完全全的“强奸犯”，当年他X粉的时候，每一个说这是福利的人，都是在助纣为虐，都是在当年被害女生的伤口上撒了一把盐。北京警方发布消息，吴X凡因涉嫌强奸罪，目前已经被朝阳公安分局依法刑事拘留。我来简单解读一下，警方的通报一般是极其严谨的，他们说涉嫌强奸，被刑事拘留，而且还把通知发了出来，那就八九不离十是掌握了重要证据，是要吃牢饭的重要证据。而且据律师介绍，一旦强奸罪成立，吴亦凡要面临三年以上的刑期，并在中国完成服刑。吴亦凡很有可能和未满14岁的幼女发生了关系，又或者在女性不同意的情况下发生关系，而且值得注意的是，中国禁毒在线也转发了吴亦凡被捕的消息，如果吴亦凡私生活足够混乱的话，那么他可能还涉嫌毒品。具体的，我们就不做过多的揣测了，一切以警方公布为准。这一次负责吴亦凡这个案件的警察据说有两三百人，绝对不会放过重要的证据，也绝对不会放过任何一个坏人。除了这些信息之外，我们来说说更值得我们关注的东西。在吴亦凡被捕之后，几乎所有官方的媒体都通报了吴亦凡被刑拘的新闻。甚至一些重要的媒体都用了非常严厉的字眼去评论，比如人民日报：这应该是中国历史上第一个因为涉及强奸罪被送进去关长达三年以上，而且被官媒如此集中报道的明星。之前不管是嫖娼罪还是吸毒罪的明星，实在太多了，但吴亦凡应该是第一个涉嫌强奸罪并且很可能“证据确凿”的明星。说明恶臭的饭圈现象还有流量明星裹挟未成年人骗财骗色，极有可能会得到整治。之前流量明星为了自己打榜，鼓吹粉丝去买牛奶给自己投票，然后倒掉，令舆论一片哗然。然后国家马上出台了相关政策，不准演艺人员面向粉丝进行商业集资，如有发现，一律严惩。而这一次吴亦凡事件之后，一定会有更有效更有力度的一次全面整治。他被刑拘只是打枪的第一枪，而后面会出台更严厉，更细致的规则和处罚，也会有更多为非作歹的网红和明星倒下。在音乐排行榜中，他（英文名字Kris Wu）屠杀了整个美国iTunes音乐排行榜，前十名，他一共占了六位。没听过不要紧，但并不妨碍他鼓吹粉丝去花钱打榜，把他捧到第一名。我们之前在微博热搜上面，几乎每天都会看到他的热搜，今天换什么衣服了，明明换什么发型了，后天又瘦了。于是，一个演戏不行，唱歌不行，人品还不行的人，被捧成了国际巨星，然后受到万千脑残粉的拥护。他们没有是非观念，没有什么价值观，眼里只有自己的偶像，甚至一冲动就会誓死保护自己的偶像，为他花钱，为他弃学，为他做各种疯狂的事情。所以一个流量明星，就像是一个高级的PUA高手，从精神上可以控制和操作自己的粉丝，于是能够诞生明星X粉是福利这样的言论，真的不奇怪了。我们再看看吴亦凡被刑拘之后，他粉丝的那些话到底有多“震惊”三观：吴亦凡变成这样，他自己占一半的原因，那些粉丝的无脑追捧也要占一半。我曾经亲自去卧底一个饭圈的粉丝圈，你真的会很惊愕你所看到的一切。在明星的运营团队眼中，粉丝就像是他们的工具，被他们拿来去攻击别的明星，去网上各种撕逼，去应援，去机场接机，去做各种疯狂的事情。这些人里面，极大部分都是未成年人，而就因为他们是未成年人，三观还没有形成，也就很容易被他们给洗脑。这就是我们为什么一定要抵制和铲除饭圈文化的原因，因为他们伤害的是未成年人，而未成年人是我们国家的未来和希望。我们不知道娱乐圈还有多少个吴亦凡，而就是他们拿着最高的报酬，做着最肮脏的事情，享受着万千未成年粉丝的誓死拥护，变成了最危险的人渣。他的背后不仅仅是他自己，还有庞大的资本支撑，只要他能够赚到钱，资本就不会放弃他。我们曾经以为吴亦凡总是能置身之外，但这一次，例外了。吴亦凡倒下了，而让她倒下的不过也是一个不满19岁的女孩。其实仔细想想，真正能让吴亦凡倒下的，还有很多很多人。这其中有把这个事件报道出来的官媒，有去采访都美竹的记者，有为都美竹发声的大V，还有迅速介入并且把吴亦凡抓获的警方。只要他们还在荼毒我们的未成年人，只有他们还在裹挟我们的未成人去骗财骗色，我们就绝不会手软！我们的努力没有白费，我们受到的一切不公都将化为动力。罗翔曾经说过一句话，法律是一个社会最基本的底线，如果一个人总是以遵纪守法来要求自己，那么这个人就是人渣中的人渣。而吴亦凡作为一个明星，遵纪守法都不到，那么他连“人渣”这个称呼也配不上了。不要把这个世界让给你所厌恶的人，吴亦凡倒下之后，几乎所有的人都在额手称庆、喜大普奔：还有人把吴亦凡之前说的话划掉，只剩下：“请大家放心，我会自己进监狱”，用来狠狠打脸。对于恶臭的饭圈文化和没底线的流量明星，我们终于狠狠吐了一口恶气，也终于运用全社会的力量把他给绊倒了。这就是社会主义铁拳的力量，不管你是谁，不管你拥有多大名气，有多少粉丝，只要你在外面为非作歹，就一定让你吃上牢饭。我无比痛恨，有了资本、金钱和粉丝，就对女性肆意践踏的行为。这一次全社会对抗恶臭饭圈文化的胜利，不是第一次，也绝不是最后一次！
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