169. Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了，把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢，没人替你坚强。171. If you don\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想，那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会，你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡，但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人，就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本，并去倾情出演吧！177. I\\\\\\\\\\\\\'d rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者，不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌，也要优雅的谢幕，感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，见的世面多了，你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧，管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says \\\\\\\\\\\\\'I\\\\\\\\\\\\\'m possible\\\\\\\\\\\\\'! 一切皆有可能！“不可能”的意思是：“不，可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的，不管你的境遇如何，你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难，都要继续前进，因为只有你放弃的那一刻，你才输了。 When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So 颗普通的行星，但它在许多方面都是独一无二的。比如，它是太阳系中唯一一颗面积大部分被水覆盖的行星，也是目前所知唯一一颗有生命存在的 Arthur Schieble died in August 1955, after the adoption was finalized. Just after Christmas that year, Joanne and Abdulfattah were married in St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Green Bay. He got his PhD in international politics the next year, and then they had another child, a girl named Mona. After she and Jandali divorced in 1962, Joanne embarked on a dreamy and peripatetic life that her daughter, who grew up to become the acclaimed novelist Mona Simpson, would capture in her book Anywhere but Here. Because Steve’s adoption had been closed, it would be twenty years before they would all find each other. Steve Jobs knew from an early age that he was adopted. “My parents were very open with me about that,” he recalled. He had a vivid memory of sitting on the lawn of his house, when he was six or seven years old, telling the girl who lived across the street. “So does that mean your real parents didn’t want you?” the girl asked. “Lightning bolts went off in my head,” according to Jobs. “I remember running into the house, crying. And my parents said, ‘No, you have to understand.’ They were very serious and looked me straight in the eye. They said, ‘We specifically picked you out.’ Both of my parents said that and repeated it slowly for me. And they put an emphasis on every word in that sentence.” Abandoned. Chosen. Special. Those concepts became part of who Jobs was and how he regarded himself. His closest friends think that the knowledge that he was given up at birth left some scars. “I think his desire for complete control of whatever he makes derives directly from his personality and the fact that he was abandoned at birth,” said one longtime colleague, Del Yocam. “He wants to control his environment, and he sees the product as an extension of himself.” Greg Calhoun, who became close to Jobs right after college, saw another effect. “Steve talked to me a lot about being abandoned and the pain that caused,” he said. “It made him independent. He followed the beat of a different drummer, and that came from being in a different world than he was born into.” Later in life, when he was the same age his biological father had been when he abandoned him, Jobs would father and abandon a child of his own. (He eventually took responsibility for her.) Chrisann Brennan, the mother of that child, said that being put up for adoption left Jobs “full of broken glass,” and it helps to explain some of his behavior. “He who is abandoned is an abandoner,” she said. Andy Hertzfeld, who worked with Jobs at Apple in the early 1980s, is among the few who remained close to both Brennan and Jobs. “The key question about Steve is why he can’t tty good,” he said, “because he knew how to build anything. If we needed a cabinet, he would build it. When he built our fence, he gave me a hammer so I could work with him.” Fifty years later the fence still surrounds the back and side yards of the house in Mountain View. As Jobs showed it off to me, he caressed the stockade panels and recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly, even though they were hidden. “He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see.” His father continued to refurbish and resell used cars, and he festooned the garage with pictures of his favorites. He would point out the detailing of the design to his son: the lines, the vents, the chrome, the trim of the seats. After work each day, he would change into his dungarees and retreat to the garage, often with Steve tagging along. “I figured I could get him nailed down with a little mechanical ability, but he really wasn’t interested in getting his hands dirty,” Paul later recalled. “He never really cared too much about m189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力，才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车，只有不断前进，才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You\\\\\\\\\\\\\'ll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心，最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉，并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用，就是让你快乐加倍，痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时，整个宇宙都会来帮忙。echanical things.” “I wasn’t that into fixing cars,” Jobs admitted. “But I was eager to hang out with my dad.” Even as he was growing more aware that he had been adopted, he was becoming more attached to his father. One day when he was about eight, he discovered a photograph of his father from his time in the Coast Guard. “He’s in the engine room, and he’s got his shirt off and looks like James Dean. It was one of those Oh wow moments for a kid. Wow, oooh, my parents were actually once very young and really good-looking.” Through cars, his father gave Steve his first exposure to electronics. “My dad did not have a deep understanding of electronics, but he’d encountered it a lot in automobiles and other things he would fix. He showed me the rudiments of electronics, and I got very interested in that.” Even more interesting were the trips to scavenge for parts. “Every weekend, there’d be a junkyard trip. We’d be looking for a generator, a carburetor, all sorts of components.” He remembered watching his father negotiate at the counter. “He was a good bargainer, because he knew better than the guys at the counter what the parts should cost.” This helped fulfill the pledge his parents made when he was adopted. “My college fund came from my dad paying $50 for a Ford Falcon or some other beat-up car that didn’t run, working on it for a few weeks, and selling it for $250—and not telling the IRS.” The Jobses’ house and the others in their neighborhood were built by the real estate developer Joseph Eichler, whose company spawned more than eleven thousand homes in various California subdivisions between 1950 and 1974. Inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision of simple modern homes for the American “everyman,” Eichler built inexpensive houses that featured floor-to-ceiling glass walls, open floor plans, exposed post-and-beam construction, concrete slab floors, and lots of sliding glass doors. “Eichler did a great thing,” Jobs said on one of our walks around the neighborhood. “His houses were smart and cheap and good. They brought clean design and simple taste to lower-income people. They had awesome little features, like radiant heating in the floors. You put carpet on them, and we had nice toasty floors when we were kids.” Jobs said that his appreciation for Eichler homes instilled in him a passion for making nicely designed products for the mass market. “I love it when you can bring really great design and simple capability to something that doesn’t cost much,” he said as he pointed out the clean elegance of the houses. “It was the original vision for Apple. That’s what we tried to do with the first Mac. That’s what we did with the iPod.” Across the street from the Jobs family lived a man who had become successful as a real estate agent. “He wasn’t that bright,” Jobs recalled, “but he seemed to be making a fortune. So my dad thought, ‘I can do that.’ He worked so hard, I remember. He took these night classes, passed the license test, and got into real estate. Then the bottom fell out of the market.” As a result, the family found itself financially strapped for a year or so while Steve was in elementary school. His mother took a job as a bookkeeper for Varian Associates, a company that made scientific instruments, and they took out a second mortgage. One day his fourth-grade teacher asked him, “What is it you don’t understand about the universe?” Jobs replied, “I don’t understand why all of a sudden my dad is so broke.” He was proud that his father never adopted a servile attitude or slick style that may have made him a better salesman. “You had to suck up to people to sell real estate, and he wasn’t good at that and it wasn’t in his nature. I admired him for that.” Paul Jobs went back to being a mechanic. His father was calm and gentle, traits that his son later praised more than emulated. He was also resolute. Jobs described one exampl What made the neighborhood different from the thousands of other spindly-tree subdivisions across America was that even the ne’er-do-wells tended to be engineers. “When we moved here, thegh-tech and made living here very exciting.” In the wake of the defense industries there arose a booming economy based on technology. Its roots stretched back to 1938, when David Packard and his new wife moved into a house in Palo Alto that had a shed where his friend Bill Hewlett was soon ensconced. The house had a garage—an appendage that would prove both useful and iconic in the valley—in which they tinkered around until they had their first product, an audio oscillator. By the 1950s, Hewlett-Packard was a fast-growing company making technical instruments. Fortunately there was a place nearby for entrepreneurs who had outgrown their garages. In a move that would help transf The most important technology for the region’s growth was, of course, the semiconductor. William Shockley, who had been one of the inventors of the transistor at Bell Labs in New Jersey, moved out to Mountain View and, in 1956, started a company to build transistors using silicon rather than the more expensive germanium that was then commonly used. But Shockley became increasingly erratic and abandoned his silicon transistor project, which led eight of his engineers—most notably Robert Noyce and Gordon Moore—to break away to form Fairchild Semiconductor. That company grew to twelve thousand employees, but it fragmented in 1968, when Noyce lost a power struggle to become CEO. He took Gordon Moore and founded a company that they called Integrated Electronics Corporation, which they soon smartly abbreviated to Intel. Their third employee was Andrew Grove, who later would grow the company by shifting its focus from memory chips to microprocessors. Within a few years there would be more than fifty companies in the area making semiconductors. The exponential growth of this industry was correlated with the phenomenon famously discovered by Moore, who in 1965 drew a graph of the speed of integrated circuits, based on the number of transistors that could be placed on a chip, and showed that it doubled about every two years, a trajectory that could be expected to continue. This was reaffirmed in 1971, when Intel was able to etch a complete central processing unit onto one chip, the Intel 4004, tronic amplifier. “So I raced home, and I told my dad that he was wrong.” “No, it needs an amplifier,” his father assured him. When Steve protested otherwise, his father said he was crazy. “It can’t work without an amplifier. There’s some trick.” “I kept saying no to my dad, telling him he had to see it, and finally he actually walked down with me and saw it. And he said, ‘Well I’ll be a bat out of hell.’” Jobs recalled the incident vividly because it was his first realization that his father did not know everything. Then a more disconcerting discovery began to dawn on him: He was smarter than his parents. He had always admired his father’s competence and savvy. “He was not an educated man, but I had always thought he was pretty damn smart. He didn’t read much, but he could do a lot. Almost everything mechanical, he could figure it out.” Yet the carbon microphone incident, Jobs said, began a jarring process of realizing that he was in fact more clever and quick than his parents. “It was a very big moment that’s burned into my mind. When I realized that I was smarter than my parents, I felt tremendous shame for having thought that. I will never forget that moment.” This discovery, he later told friends, along with the fact that he was adopted, made him feel apart—detached and separate—from both his family and the world. Another layer of awareness occurred soon after. Not only did he discover that he was brighter than his parents, but he discovered that they knew this. Paul and Clara Jobs were loving parents, and they were willing to adapt their lives to suit a son who was very smart—and also willful. They would go to great lengths to accommodate him. And soon Steve discovered this fact as well. “Both my parents got me. They felt a lot of responsibility once they sensed that I was special. They found ways to keep feeding me stuff and putting me in better schools. They were willing to defer to my needs.” So he grew up not only with a sense of having once been abandoned, but also with a sense that he was special. In his own mind, that was more important in the formation of his personality. School Even before Jobs started elementary school, his mother had taught him how to read. This, however, led to some problems once he got to school. “I was kind of bored for the first few year
今年春节期间，辽宁抚顺望花区，一小学三年级班主任兼语文老师杨某，在家服毒身亡。@北京青年报 报道，杨某曾找到班级里一孩子的家长林某，说自己看中了一套房，但自己的钱都在理财里还没到期，向林某借了5万元，并承诺到月底理财到期就还上。
林某禁不住请求，就给了：“她要得很急，又打电话又发微信。”然而到了约定好的还钱期限，杨某开始说自己手头紧，不仅没还钱，还以“孩子出国留学”为理由，继续找林某借钱。林某这次长了个心眼：“我当时觉得不对，现在国外疫情这么严重还出国留学？于是就拒绝了。”另一个孩子已经从该小学毕业了两年的家长张某，也收到了杨某的借款信息。杨某谎称孩子要考研，张某分两次借给杨某7万元。没多久，杨某又说孩子出国要交保证金，张某又分两次共借给杨某45万元。临近还款日期，张某要求杨某提供孩子出国的担保金账户和基金账户，来证明自己有能力还款，但杨某什么都拿不出来。没多久，这些借钱给杨某的家长们，在群里得知她自杀的消息。相互一问，才发现，整个班级里有三十多个家长都给杨某借了钱，初步统计可能有117万之多。
原来起早是在一个卖红枣的微信群里，有人拉她进入一个大型彩票网站。她在家人不知情的情况下借钱去买彩票，直到欠下巨款。她以买房、孩子上学等各种理由借款，边借边还。“我每次进入网站，就是想把赔的钱赚回来，然后还钱。没想到，我越欠越多。”“我不仅骗了80多岁的老母亲，欺骗了老公和儿子，还欺骗了很多学生家长。我已经无力偿还债务，这些事情都是我一个人所为。”
杨某的老公告诉@北京青年报 的记者，在知道妻子因为网络赌博欠下巨款后，曾劝她去自首，但杨某不愿意。逝者已逝，耳朵无意再去对个人的行为进行评判，只想为大家揭开杀死这名辽宁女教师的幕后真凶：利用人性的欲望，环环相套把人拉入陷阱再慢慢吸血，导致太多人家破人亡的网络赌博。从一块钱入门，到20秒输掉十五万，网络赌博背后的猫腻，你想象不到。或许你曾听说过打着“创新电商”名头的“一元购”平台：跟抽奖游戏类似，花一块钱买个中奖号，想要加大中奖几率，就要多买。一块钱，对于我们很多人来说，可能算不上“钱”，再对比它背后的奖品：苹果手机、金条、汽车，不少人会选择搏一搏。新华社“中国网事”记者报道，河北一位元先生， 就被这一块钱吸引。从“一元购”中了一包“三只松鼠”干果开始，便不断加大购买金额，投注—中奖—再投注循环往复，等到“一元购”平台停业时，他已经亏了400万。一块钱中包干果，十块钱中部iPhone，没有人会收得住手，这叫“放长线”。从每天投几块钱玩两把到每天几十万砸进去，平台总会在某些你已经绝望的时候，给你一点小惊喜，让你中一次。当平台判定你已经有了赌瘾时，就是收网“捞大鱼”的时候了。哪怕你购买了70%的中奖筹码，平台都不会抽中你。已经博上瘾的人只会继续往里砸钱，最后血本无归。心理学家斯金纳曾提出一个“间歇强化”理论：如果间歇性地奖励一只狗，狗就会和上瘾一样时刻保持兴奋，自发性地为你做更多事，而这种类似上瘾的行为，需要很久很久才会消退。一直赢的人很难对赌博上瘾，因为无聊无趣；一直输的人更不会继续赌，没人愿意从口袋里掏钱给别人。只有在输的过程中偶尔赢几把的人才会一直玩，因为他需要用“赢”来证明自己的能力。说句难听的，所有的赌博平台都和这个理论一样，像驯化狗一样驯化出一个又一个赌徒。哪怕已经输完了家产，他也顶不住“下一把可能就会翻盘”这个念头带来的驱动力。有人勤奋上进家庭和睦，在染上赌瘾后输了房车，散了朋友，落得个唏嘘窘迫的下场。有人本就没钱，却因赌博负债几十万，卖身般免费帮人打工，与家人闹到分崩离析。在广西玉林女护士残忍杀害男医生并将其分尸的案件里，一天赌博流水高达几十万的李凤萍，根本无法说清自己是如何陷入赌博的。
从手机的垃圾短信，到网页跳出来的弹屏，无数平台无数渠道在等着大鱼上钩。只要你开始对“诱饵”产生兴趣，那离被啃食殆尽，就已经不远了。网赌圈还有一句流传很广的话，要想死得快，网赌加网贷。@半月谈 曾经报道，山东临沂的李建（化名），原本坐拥多套房产，过着让很多同龄人羡慕的生活。
“富丽堂皇的赌场和瞬间得失几十万的画面，深深烙在他的脑海里。回家以后，李建开始在网上搜索网络赌博。”
打开游戏，性感的长发女子款款走来，20秒的时间下注，最低10元，最高20万。在输掉这2400块之前，他还很小心谨慎，生怕上当受骗，只充值了1000元，赢了2000多。可赢了之后，下一把投注就会越来越大，越输越急眼，越急眼越是想要下注翻盘，最后往往会把所有的钱都压上，想回一把本，结果输得更多。
“只要账户里还有钱，我就想一直玩下去，要不然心里难受，睡不着觉。”“有一次20秒之内输了15万，万念俱灰，我推开阳台的窗户，真有跳下去的冲动。”
几个月的时间，李建输完了所有的积蓄，还输掉了一套房子的抵押贷款，欠下了20万的信用卡。他无数次想要戒赌，可一旦手上有了点钱，就会鬼迷心窍地打开网站，继续博彩。至今为止，他仍然相信，自己有把钱都赢回来的可能性。在这些网络赌博的平台里，他们一怕你不赌，二怕你没钱。如果你已经输得倾家荡产，平台还会“送你钱”，助你“东山再起”。你当日输得越多，隔日登录领的“转运金”就会越多，一步步催着你继续赌下去。甚至于有的平台会植入借贷渠道“砍头息”：借6万只给5万，三个月后连本带息要还10万。这么高的利息，照样有人乐此不疲地去借。甚至有人一个手机里下载了30多个借贷软件，每家都欠着几万块钱。李凤萍也是，先是找身边闺蜜几千几千地借，然后把京东金条、拍拍贷金融等能借的平台都借了一遍。后来又欺骗同事，以贷款给母亲治病还钱为理由，向银行申请高额贷款，一笔30万，一笔16万。这些钱用完了，就开始出卖身体，和男同事维持不正当关系来换取借钱的机会。债台高筑，杀人心起。这个年仅25岁的姑娘，以故意杀人罪，被判了死刑。放在正道上，可能是件好事。而选择赌博，最后一定会被平台吃干抹尽，连骨头渣都不会剩。而那些赚得盆满钵满的平台，根本不会在乎这个世界上有多少人被债台压垮，又有多少人因为赌博，成为下一个“李凤萍”。十赌九诈，所有“赢了一局”的幸运，背后都是机关算尽。《凤凰WEEKLY》曾深入报道过网络赌博，这些平台“钓鱼”的手法几乎一样：后台动动鼠标，就能决定你的输赢。比如一款“龙虎斗”的网络赌博方式，后台人为干预：“买龙多的就开虎，买虎多的就开龙，赌场永远稳赚不赔。”根据你提交的身份信息，就可以通过一系列软件破解你的全部秘密：哪里人，有多少资产，名下有几家公司，甚至是银行账号的每日流水。
“先让赌徒小赢一点，这个阶段赌徒基本上押什么赢什么。十把牌里至少赢五六把，造成赢钱是有技巧或者是运气好的误判。然后在某个恰当的时刻，再为赌徒开一条"天路"（指无论押什么都会赢），连赢数十把。如此旺盛的运势，后台会连续让赌徒赢七八天，甚至十余天。赌注额也由数万元，慢慢增加到数十万元。第十一天，点杀的时刻到了，后台一把杀掉赌徒的运势，此后接连不断，往往在短短一个小时之内，席卷赌徒所有的资产。”
运气，在网络赌博中就是假象。在计算机和人为修改的算法下，赌徒就是待宰的羔羊。网络赌博圈子里，还有一个名词，叫“洗白”：先让你赚点小钱，等你知道全部玩法之后，再下套让你一步步输个精光。网络赌博，就是一群丧失人性的人，通过磨灭另一群人的人性来赚钱。也许你只是抱着“放松”“娱乐”的初衷想要尝试玩一下，图个乐，但对不起，资本不会放弃任何一棵可以割掉的韭菜。以前的传统赌博，还是印象里有钱人才能去得了的澳门、拉斯维加斯这样的豪华大赌场，而今时代变了。一部手机，搭载网络，不论是996的工薪白领，工地搬砖的工人，还是拿着父母钱的在校大学生，只要透过这一方小小的屏幕，就能深陷其中。它拿捏住你对金钱的欲望，胜负心的骚动，不吸干最后一滴血不撒手。
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