“he really just deserves the world;he deserves endless kindness,love,happiness.i hope this year like every other year and many more to come,his birthday will be wonderful.and i will proudly and happily do my part and spread love and positivity this month and on his birthday.”

[单身狗][单身狗][单身狗]

5.5. Someone said, “Yong is virtuous, but he is not eloquent.” The Master said, “What is the use of eloquence? Eloquence to the point of imposition would often cause disgust. I do not know whether Yong is virtuous. But what is use of his being eloquent?”

5.6. The Master asked Qidiao Kai to serve as an officer. Qidiao Kai replied, “I am not sure how I can fulfill an office.” The Master was pleased.

虽然我已经被今天学的税收制度虐到超级无比想吐，也无比想要放弃考试，但还是激励自己从The Conquest of Happiness中汲取一些力量，
感悟：

I do not mean that monotony has any merits of its own; I mean only that certain good things are not possible except where there is a certain degree of monotony.
我不说寂寞本身有何优点；我只说某些美妙的事物，没有相当的寂寞单调就不能享受。

[心]能忍受寂寞的人一定是认识到了“寂寞能生产果实”的价值，并在寂寞中真的创造出了果实。如果只在寂寞中体会孤独的感受，那反倒不如去热闹环境里增加复杂的体验，提升对生命丰富性的认知。

我跟儿子说“我看也看不懂，学也学不会，记也记不住”。
他：“记不住么？”
我：“嗯”，
他：“那睡觉去吧”
我心想那我还是慢慢啃下来，考过了你也会为我高兴的[吐][泪][悲伤][加油]