One night in late autumn, the moon had gone down and crows were crying. The autumn frost fogged the whole sky. Maple trees along the river and lights on fishing boats kept the homesick passengers sleepless. At the Hanshan Temple outside the city of Suzhou, the bell that struck in the middle of the night came to my passenger ship.

A relationship should be treated as a dessert, not as a main course. If your life is aimed at some goal, if there is some goal in your life, some aim in your life, then you move in the direction and relationship will move along. If all your focus is just on your relationship, it will not work. And it doesn’t work. You can’t have a dessert for your main course.
Have a goal in life, have an aim to do some service. Sharing and serving would enhance your ability to love, your ability to accept. And if you have that as a goal and both together move in that direction, there will be no problem.
Service is an essential ingredient for a successful relationship. And if the relationship comes from the space of giving rather than need, it is a good relationship.

应该把关系当作甜点，而不是主菜。如果你生命的目的是某些目标，如果你的生活中有某些目标，你的生活中有某些目的，那么你就会朝着这个方向前进，关系也会随之向前发展。如果你把所有的注意力都放在你的关系上，这是行不通的，而且也不会起作用。你不能把甜点当做你的主菜。
人生要有目标，有目的的去做一些服务，分享和服务会增强你爱的能力，你接受的能力。如果你有这样的目标，并且朝这个方向努力，那就不会有问题。
服务是关系成功的一个基本要素。而如果这种关系来自于给予而不是需求的空间，那就是一种良好的关系。

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Be a very simple person, easy to get along with, not easy to get along with. You don't have to be nice to everyone. They don't give you money.
做一个特别简单的人，好相处就处，不好相处就不处。不必对每个人好，他们又不给你打钱。