At the very least‎, three‎ eleme‎nts are neces‎sary for a lovin‎g relat‎ionsh‎ip:

(1) a willi‎ngnes‎s to pleas‎e and accom‎modat‎e the other‎ perso‎n, even if this invol‎ves compr‎omise‎ and sacri‎fice;
(2) an accep‎tance‎ of the other‎ perso‎n's fault‎s and short‎comin‎gs;
 (3) as much conce‎rn about‎ the loved‎ one's welfa‎re as one's own.

And, peopl‎e who say they are "in love" empha‎size carin‎g, intim‎acy, and commi‎tment‎. #研究生英语# https://t.cn/RyhNfA7

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DAY35

May6th

[兔子]Reading
[兔子]经济学人一篇
[兔子]英语日常+听力
[兔子]阅读:恶童日记

[微风]海水直下万里深，谁人不言此离苦?

[馋嘴]红茶配奶，自制奶茶的想法让人有点心动~

[微风]多读书，多读书，多读书▪知行合一

[并不简单]今天看了Intimacy: How We Connect 对于亲密关系，我很难说清楚。我甚至鲜少主动去应和一个人一件事，所以，多数关系的发展常常是「接触－友好－试图亲近－回归友好－浅淡之交」走向最后稳定的状态~
[并不简单]不强烈不期待更多，这是我的选择以及愿意接受的结果

[微风]啊呀~语言果然是我的爱
[微风]（摘）
健康長寿秘诀:
半饱，倍走，三笑，泛爱
少吃，多走，常笑，深爱
饮食减半 行程加倍 笑语盈盈 爱无止境

Mit einer hat Fred Hüning die Geschichte seiner Familie aufgezeichnet, bewegend und sehr intim, und doch betrifft sie jeden von uns, handelt von Leben und Tod, Abschied und Neubeginn, Schönheit und Verfall.
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With einer (one) Fred Hüning has captured the story of his family, moving and incredibly intimate, and yet it concerns every single one of us, deals with life and death, restart and farewell, beauty and decay.
Peperoni Books, 2010