上次走这个天桥是2012年。那一年天桥上还没画出自行车道，手机还拍不出这么蓝的夜空。那一年你体验了一把什么叫绝望。你觉得整个世界都塌了，你真实地感受到心的疼痛，望向前路不知自己该走向何方，因为你用几年的时间把人生交在了别人手里。于是这长久的依赖让你成了生活的废物。那一年Adele的《Someone like you》唱遍全世界各个角落，你觉得歌里唱的很对，甚至鼓励到自己。再走这个天桥已经是2020年尾，八年时间过去，你发现每个人都不需要find someone like谁。当你从别人那里获取安全感的时候，这本身，已经是最不安全的事。
我可能回避，否认，遇到同样的问题就启动防御。如果我悲观，我就接纳我的悲观，我就跟悲观的我好好相处，何必一定要阳光灿烂。
我可能回避，否认，遇到同样的问题就启动防御。如果我悲观，我就接纳我的悲观，我就跟悲观的我好好相处，何必一定要阳光灿烂。
#阳光信用[超话]# #阳光信用##每日一善#
whentherestoftheworldwalksout.别人都走开的时候朋友仍与你在一起Sometimesinlife,youfindaspecialfriend;有时候在生活中你会找到一个特别的朋友Someonewhochangesyourlifejustbybeingpartofit.他只是你生活中的一部分内容却能改变你整whentherestoftheworldwalksout.别人都走开的时候朋友仍与你在一起Sometimesinlife,youfindaspecialfriend;有时候在生活中你会找到一个特别的朋友Someonewhochangesyourlifejustbybeingpartofit.他只是你生活中的一部分内容却能改变你整个的生活
whentherestoftheworldwalksout.别人都走开的时候朋友仍与你在一起Sometimesinlife,youfindaspecialfriend;有时候在生活中你会找到一个特别的朋友Someonewhochangesyourlifejustbybeingpartofit.他只是你生活中的一部分内容却能改变你整whentherestoftheworldwalksout.别人都走开的时候朋友仍与你在一起Sometimesinlife,youfindaspecialfriend;有时候在生活中你会找到一个特别的朋友Someonewhochangesyourlifejustbybeingpartofit.他只是你生活中的一部分内容却能改变你整个的生活
#喵大人的時尚經[超话]#之前在国外很红的一首小诗，分享给最近生艰的你
纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时，
New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
但加州时间并没有变慢。
but it does not make California slow.
有人22岁就毕业了，
Someone graduated at the age of 22,
但等了五年才找到好的工作！
but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
有人25岁就当上CEO，
Someone became a CEO at 25,
却在50岁去世。
and died at 50.
也有人迟到50岁才当上CEO，
While another became a CEO at 50,
然后活到90岁。
and lived to 90 years.
有人依然单身，
Someone is still single,
同时也有人已婚。
while someone else got married.
世上每个人本来就有自己的发展时区。
Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.
身边有些人看似走在你前面，
People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
也有人看似走在你后面。
some might seem to be behind you.
但其实每个人在自己的时区有自己的步程。
But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。
Don’t envy them or mock them.
他们都在自己的时区里，你也是！
They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
生命就是等待正确的行动时机。
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
所以，放轻松。
So, RELAX.
你没有落后。
You’re not LATE.
你没有领先。
You’re not EARLY.
在命运为你安排的属于自己的时区里，一切都准时。
You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.
纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时，
New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
但加州时间并没有变慢。
but it does not make California slow.
有人22岁就毕业了，
Someone graduated at the age of 22,
但等了五年才找到好的工作！
but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
有人25岁就当上CEO，
Someone became a CEO at 25,
却在50岁去世。
and died at 50.
也有人迟到50岁才当上CEO，
While another became a CEO at 50,
然后活到90岁。
and lived to 90 years.
有人依然单身，
Someone is still single,
同时也有人已婚。
while someone else got married.
世上每个人本来就有自己的发展时区。
Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.
身边有些人看似走在你前面，
People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
也有人看似走在你后面。
some might seem to be behind you.
但其实每个人在自己的时区有自己的步程。
But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。
Don’t envy them or mock them.
他们都在自己的时区里，你也是！
They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
生命就是等待正确的行动时机。
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
所以，放轻松。
So, RELAX.
你没有落后。
You’re not LATE.
你没有领先。
You’re not EARLY.
在命运为你安排的属于自己的时区里，一切都准时。
You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.
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