169. Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t let yesterday use up too much of today. 别留念昨天了，把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢，没人替你坚强。171. If you don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你没有梦想，那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你给自己机会，你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡，但我独一无二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人，就算是我不想笑的时候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 为你的生命想一个全新剧本，并去倾情出演吧！177. I\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'d rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做个悲伤的智者，不如做个开心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使没有人为你鼓掌，也要优雅的谢幕，感谢自己的认真付出。180. Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t let dream just be your dream. 别让梦想只停留在梦里。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，见的世面多了，你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 开心一点吧，管它会怎样。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'I\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'m possible\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'! 一切皆有可能！“不可能”的意思是：“不，可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本) 187. Life isn\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的，不管你的境遇如何，你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 无论多么艰难，都要继续前进，因为只有你放弃的那一刻，你才输了。 When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised on a dairy farm in Germantown, Wisconsin. Even though his father was an alcoholic and sometimes abusive, Paul ended up with a gentle and calm disposition under his leathery exterior. After dropping out of high school, he wandered through the Midwest picking up work as a mechanic until, at age nineteen, he joined the Coast Guard, even though he didn’t know how to swim. He was deployed on the USS General M. C. Meigs and spent much of the war ferrying troops to Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a “repo man,” picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So 颗普通的行星，但它在许多方面都是独一无二的。比如，它是太阳系中唯一一颗面积大部分被水覆盖的行星，也是目前所知唯一一颗有生命存在的 Arthur Schieble died in August 1955, after the adoption was finalized. Just after Christmas that year, Joanne and Abdulfattah were married in St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Green Bay. He got his PhD in international politics the next year, and then they had another child, a girl named Mona. After she and Jandali divorced in 1962, Joanne embarked on a dreamy and peripatetic life that her daughter, who grew up to become the acclaimed novelist Mona Simpson, would capture in her book Anywhere but Here. Because Steve’s adoption had been closed, it would be twenty years before they would all find each other. Steve Jobs knew from an early age that he was adopted. “My parents were very open with me about that,” he recalled. He had a vivid memory of sitting on the lawn of his house, when he was six or seven years old, telling the girl who lived across the street. “So does that mean your real parents didn’t want you?” the girl asked. “Lightning bolts went off in my head,” according to Jobs. “I remember running into the house, crying. And my parents said, ‘No, you have to understand.’ They were very serious and looked me straight in the eye. They said, ‘We specifically picked you out.’ Both of my parents said that and repeated it slowly for me. And they put an emphasis on every word in that sentence.” Abandoned. Chosen. Special. Those concepts became part of who Jobs was and how he regarded himself. His closest friends think that the knowledge that he was given up at birth left some scars. “I think his desire for complete control of whatever he makes derives directly from his personality and the fact that he was abandoned at birth,” said one longtime colleague, Del Yocam. “He wants to control his environment, and he sees the product as an extension of himself.” Greg Calhoun, who became close to Jobs right after college, saw another effect. “Steve talked to me a lot about being abandoned and the pain that caused,” he said. “It made him independent. He followed the beat of a different drummer, and that came from being in a different world than he was born into.” Later in life, when he was the same age his biological father had been when he abandoned him, Jobs would father and abandon a child of his own. (He eventually took responsibility for her.) Chrisann Brennan, the mother of that child, said that being put up for adoption left Jobs “full of broken glass,” and it helps to explain some of his behavior. “He who is abandoned is an abandoner,” she said. Andy Hertzfeld, who worked with Jobs at Apple in the early 1980s, is among the few who remained close to both Brennan and Jobs. “The key question about Steve is why he can’t tty good,” he said, “because he knew how to build anything. If we needed a cabinet, he would build it. When he built our fence, he gave me a hammer so I could work with him.” Fifty years later the fence still surrounds the back and side yards of the house in Mountain View. As Jobs showed it off to me, he caressed the stockade panels and recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly, even though they were hidden. “He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see.” His father continued to refurbish and resell used cars, and he festooned the garage with pictures of his favorites. He would point out the detailing of the design to his son: the lines, the vents, the chrome, the trim of the seats. After work each day, he would change into his dungarees and retreat to the garage, often with Steve tagging along. “I figured I could get him nailed down with a little mechanical ability, but he really wasn’t interested in getting his hands dirty,” Paul later recalled. “He never really cared too much about m189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必须十分努力，才能看起来毫不费力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像骑单车，只有不断前进，才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'ll end up having more. 拥有一颗感恩的心，最终你会得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一种内心的感觉，并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用，就是让你快乐加倍，痛苦减半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 当你真心渴望某样东西时，整个宇宙都会来帮忙。echanical things.” “I wasn’t that into fixing cars,” Jobs admitted. “But I was eager to hang out with my dad.” Even as he was growing more aware that he had been adopted, he was becoming more attached to his father. One day when he was about eight, he discovered a photograph of his father from his time in the Coast Guard. “He’s in the engine room, and he’s got his shirt off and looks like James Dean. It was one of those Oh wow moments for a kid. Wow, oooh, my parents were actually once very young and really good-looking.” Through cars, his father gave Steve his first exposure to electronics. “My dad did not have a deep understanding of electronics, but he’d encountered it a lot in automobiles and other things he would fix. He showed me the rudiments of electronics, and I got very interested in that.” Even more interesting were the trips to scavenge for parts. “Every weekend, there’d be a junkyard trip. We’d be looking for a generator, a carburetor, all sorts of components.” He remembered watching his father negotiate at the counter. “He was a good bargainer, because he knew better than the guys at the counter what the parts should cost.” This helped fulfill the pledge his parents made when he was adopted. “My college fund came from my dad paying $50 for a Ford Falcon or some other beat-up car that didn’t run, working on it for a few weeks, and selling it for $250—and not telling the IRS.” The Jobses’ house and the others in their neighborhood were built by the real estate developer Joseph Eichler, whose company spawned more than eleven thousand homes in various California subdivisions between 1950 and 1974. Inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision of simple modern homes for the American “everyman,” Eichler built inexpensive houses that featured floor-to-ceiling glass walls, open floor plans, exposed post-and-beam construction, concrete slab floors, and lots of sliding glass doors. “Eichler did a great thing,” Jobs said on one of our walks around the neighborhood. “His houses were smart and cheap and good. They brought clean design and simple taste to lower-income people. They had awesome little features, like radiant heating in the floors. You put carpet on them, and we had nice toasty floors when we were kids.” Jobs said that his appreciation for Eichler homes instilled in him a passion for making nicely designed products for the mass market. “I love it when you can bring really great design and simple capability to something that doesn’t cost much,” he said as he pointed out the clean elegance of the houses. “It was the original vision for Apple. That’s what we tried to do with the first Mac. That’s what we did with the iPod.” Across the street from the Jobs family lived a man who had become successful as a real estate agent. “He wasn’t that bright,” Jobs recalled, “but he seemed to be making a fortune. So my dad thought, ‘I can do that.’ He worked so hard, I remember. He took these night classes, passed the license test, and got into real estate. Then the bottom fell out of the market.” As a result, the family found itself financially strapped for a year or so while Steve was in elementary school. His mother took a job as a bookkeeper for Varian Associates, a company that made scientific instruments, and they took out a second mortgage. One day his fourth-grade teacher asked him, “What is it you don’t understand about the universe?” Jobs replied, “I don’t understand why all of a sudden my dad is so broke.” He was proud that his father never adopted a servile attitude or slick style that may have made him a better salesman. “You had to suck up to people to sell real estate, and he wasn’t good at that and it wasn’t in his nature. I admired him for that.” Paul Jobs went back to being a mechanic. His father was calm and gentle, traits that his son later praised more than emulated. He was also resolute. Jobs described one exampl What made the neighborhood different from the thousands of other spindly-tree subdivisions across America was that even the ne’er-do-wells tended to be engineers. “When we moved here, thegh-tech and made living here very exciting.” In the wake of the defense industries there arose a booming economy based on technology. Its roots stretched back to 1938, when David Packard and his new wife moved into a house in Palo Alto that had a shed where his friend Bill Hewlett was soon ensconced. The house had a garage—an appendage that would prove both useful and iconic in the valley—in which they tinkered around until they had their first product, an audio oscillator. By the 1950s, Hewlett-Packard was a fast-growing company making technical instruments. Fortunately there was a place nearby for entrepreneurs who had outgrown their garages. In a move that would help transf The most important technology for the region’s growth was, of course, the semiconductor. William Shockley, who had been one of the inventors of the transistor at Bell Labs in New Jersey, moved out to Mountain View and, in 1956, started a company to build transistors using silicon rather than the more expensive germanium that was then commonly used. But Shockley became increasingly erratic and abandoned his silicon transistor project, which led eight of his engineers—most notably Robert Noyce and Gordon Moore—to break away to form Fairchild Semiconductor. That company grew to twelve thousand employees, but it fragmented in 1968, when Noyce lost a power struggle to become CEO. He took Gordon Moore and founded a company that they called Integrated Electronics Corporation, which they soon smartly abbreviated to Intel. Their third employee was Andrew Grove, who later would grow the company by shifting its focus from memory chips to microprocessors. Within a few years there would be more than fifty companies in the area making semiconductors. The exponential growth of this industry was correlated with the phenomenon famously discovered by Moore, who in 1965 drew a graph of the speed of integrated circuits, based on the number of transistors that could be placed on a chip, and showed that it doubled about every two years, a trajectory that could be expected to continue. This was reaffirmed in 1971, when Intel was able to etch a complete central processing unit onto one chip, the Intel 4004, tronic amplifier. “So I raced home, and I told my dad that he was wrong.” “No, it needs an amplifier,” his father assured him. When Steve protested otherwise, his father said he was crazy. “It can’t work without an amplifier. There’s some trick.” “I kept saying no to my dad, telling him he had to see it, and finally he actually walked down with me and saw it. And he said, ‘Well I’ll be a bat out of hell.’” Jobs recalled the incident vividly because it was his first realization that his father did not know everything. Then a more disconcerting discovery began to dawn on him: He was smarter than his parents. He had always admired his father’s competence and savvy. “He was not an educated man, but I had always thought he was pretty damn smart. He didn’t read much, but he could do a lot. Almost everything mechanical, he could figure it out.” Yet the carbon microphone incident, Jobs said, began a jarring process of realizing that he was in fact more clever and quick than his parents. “It was a very big moment that’s burned into my mind. When I realized that I was smarter than my parents, I felt tremendous shame for having thought that. I will never forget that moment.” This discovery, he later told friends, along with the fact that he was adopted, made him feel apart—detached and separate—from both his family and the world. Another layer of awareness occurred soon after. Not only did he discover that he was brighter than his parents, but he discovered that they knew this. Paul and Clara Jobs were loving parents, and they were willing to adapt their lives to suit a son who was very smart—and also willful. They would go to great lengths to accommodate him. And soon Steve discovered this fact as well. “Both my parents got me. They felt a lot of responsibility once they sensed that I was special. They found ways to keep feeding me stuff and putting me in better schools. They were willing to defer to my needs.” So he grew up not only with a sense of having once been abandoned, but also with a sense that he was special. In his own mind, that was more important in the formation of his personality. School Even before Jobs started elementary school, his mother had taught him how to read. This, however, led to some problems once he got to school. “I was kind of bored for the first few years
“My life is not your porn（我的生活，不是你的色情片）！”
这是前几年，韩国女性游行示威时喊的口号，呼吁打击偷拍。
韩国一直是偷拍重灾区。《朝鲜日报》的记者曾在首尔走访，发现公共女厕里最明显的一条标语，不是“小心滑倒”，而是“小心偷拍”。在YouTube上，还有不少韩国小孩偷拍妈妈睡觉甚至洗澡的视频。一个偷拍过妈妈的孩子说：如果订阅人数增加，会上传更刺激的视频。看到报道的韩国女性表示：就是这样，我才害怕生儿子。
在中国，虽然没有游行示威，但偷拍同样普遍，以至于有些恶心偷窥者的奇葩安全裤，大受女生欢迎...今年5月，中央网信办等四个部门，共同整治摄像头偷窥等黑产。短短3个月，成果显著到让人触目惊心：处置了4000多个账号、群组132个；下架违规产品1600余件；查获非法控制的网络摄像头使用权限2.5万余个......
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半小时控制3000个摄像头，
偷拍是伴随着不断升级的相机技术产生的。2000年，世界诞生了第一部可以拍照的手机，偷拍渐渐入侵普罗大众的生活。今年7月，网友曝光了一个叫做“安全相机”的APP（现已下架），它可以把相机伪装成黑屏或桌面等，让他人看不出来偷拍者在拍照。而且，拍下来的照片，会存储在“隐私相册”里。偷拍者即使被怀疑，对方也找不到证据。类似的APP，其实一直都有，每一个都有几十万的下载量。不过相比APP，更普遍、更让人防不胜防的隐蔽摄像头，才最需要提防。曾经揭露五星级酒店保洁乱象的“花总”，有一次拍摄视频，导演让他找出预先设置在房间内的12个针孔摄像头，作为半专业人士的“花总”，在专业器具的帮助，愣是只找到了一半。
“花总”介绍，最小的摄像头，它的镜片只有三根头发丝那么细，基本不会被发现。因为小，摄像头可以藏在各种地方，比如闹钟、插座、灯。对付这些摄像头，网上有不少科普，比如关灯后，用手机摄像头扫描，根据屏幕中的红点找到摄像头的位置。但是，许多针孔摄像头，都能做到“全彩夜视不发光”，不论何时都只是个你看不到的小黑点。为了省电，摄像头还会配备红外动作检测功能，只有人进来了，才会开始拍摄。更狠的摄像头还号称：不用接电就能用一年。如此高性能的摄像头，让偷窥者肆无忌惮，到处下手，包括酒店、试衣间、出租屋、电动扶梯、女厕所......就连在医院里做妇科检查，都不安全。2019年3月，闲鱼上就被曝光有人打着“教学”的名号兜售“妇科检查视频”。甚至在自己家里，也可能中招。河南有对夫妻家里遭受盗窃，后来发现小偷还安装了针孔摄像头，在调试时拍下了自己的脸，被抓后证据确凿，省了警察不少事。但更可怕的是，即使家里没被安装针孔摄像头，也可能摆脱不了偷窥者。现在很多人都会在家里装摄像头，殊不知你通过摄像头查看家里情况，偷窥者通过控制你的摄像头在看你。有记者暗访一个偷窥组织，发现他们不到半小时，就把吉林省的3000多个家庭摄像头的ID、用户名和密码都破解了出来！破解出来后，偷窥者不仅能实时观看，还能截取和录制保存视频画面；如果侵入的摄像头可以转动，还可以控制转动方向；如果摄像头内有存储卡，还可以选择回看。家用摄像头之所以这么容易被破解，据网络尖刀安全团队创始人曲子龙解释，这是因为很多人会用123456/888888/666666这样的弱口令密码，甚至从未更改过初始密码，很容易被破解。此外，偷窥者还会创建一套常用密码字典，用以提高破解率，通过暴力破解的方式破解摄像头。
花100买个摄像头，开直播赚回十倍！
偷拍的目的，除了少部分人是为了满足自己的偷窥欲，更多情况是为了牟利。在以前，牟利的方式一般是卖片。他们会把偷拍到的视频简单分类，打包卖掉，用露骨的文件名吸引买家，买家花钱买下他们的百度云等网盘的账号，或者在他们的客户端充值观看。在一个以偷拍交流为主题的论坛中，当谈及偷拍直播与国外成人电影的区别时，有网友表示：“大学生XX直播给你看，多刺激。”为了增加吸引力，对于定点偷窥的摄像头，卖家会在小广告里强调“正对着床”。对于更智能的摄像头，卖家则会拿出“远程遥控，随时调整角度”，“抓拍、录像”等功能作为卖点。不仅如此，他们还有“增值服务”、“私人订制服务”等，用户体验很变态。一个卖家表示，他有扫描软件，可以扫描哪个账号有“精品”，“每天都扫，扫到好的精品更新都会免费送客户。”如果有买家想看哪个省份或者地区的直播，他们甚至可以派人安装。购买一个摄像头，少则一百，多则六七百，但是一个供人观看直播的邀请码，卖家就能以150到200的价格卖给下线代理。代理们也会发展下线，继续加价，最终一个邀请码甚至会卖到600元以上！而一个针孔摄像头，通常最多能提供100个邀请码分享给他人，不受地域限制。这意味着，你所做的一切，可能有100个人在线观看！2018年，据警方通报，有一个买家“葛某贺”，在购买过几次针孔摄像头观看权后，决定加入到这一黑产当中。随后，他特意去“带有主题性质的宾馆”，用买来的身份证登记入住，安装了20多个摄像头，用来拍摄房客的实时性爱视频。不到2个月，他就发展出72个下线，分享给了768个“家人”，获利8万多！生意做得更大，也更有技术含量的是一个叫做“巫某成”的卖家。他不卖邀请码，而是通过租赁服务器，搭建APP，创建网站等方式，入侵和控制了中国、日本、韩国、美国等国家的18万个摄像头，发展出了一万多的注册用户。这一万多的用户，根据充值金额的不同，分为了68、368、668三个层次。普通会员一次只能看到4个画面，最高级的一次能刷出16个画面，想看哪个，点击就能放大。在暴利的诱惑下，总会有人铤而走险，因此黑产不仅难以杜绝，反而越做越大。
“杀不死”的偷拍黑产：惩罚还不如酒驾
打击偷窥黑产，不是今年才开始的，但始终不能斩草除根。一个叫宋拓的“艺术家”，在大学里偷拍了近5000名女生的视频。他把这些女生评为了“美、中、丑”，还细分为了“可原谅的丑”、“不可原谅的丑”等等。更荒唐的是，他还把偷拍内容取名为《校花》，成功登上了今年当代艺术中心上海馆举办的艺术展。正是因为有不少人存在相关癖好，偷窥黑产才有了生长的土壤。我们管理不到每个人的心理问题，只能加大对黑产的打击力度。今年7月27日，陕西渭南某烧烤店内，一名女生上厕所时发现被一男子偷拍，告诉了一起吃饭的4名男性朋友，随后4人群殴偷拍者。结果，打人的4人自然是被行政拘留了，但是偷拍者只被罚款几百，连拘留都不用。
“偷窥、偷拍、窃听、散布他人隐私的，处五日以下拘留或者五百元以下罚款；情节较重的，处五日以上十日以下拘留，可以并处五百元以下罚款。”
只有向他人出售和提供公民个人信息的，处罚才会升级：情节严重的，处3年以下有期徒刑或者拘役，并处或者单处罚金。换言之，只要偷拍者不分享或出售偷拍内容，基本不会有太大的处罚。相比之下，去年9月，美国丹佛市的一名医生，利用职务之便偷拍了大量男孩们的裸体照片，并分享到网上，被判了23年的监禁，还要接受10年的狱外监管。此前在电商平台上，不少卖家都在明目张胆地卖针孔摄像头。平台管控严格之后，他们就打起游击战。客服下班后，他们就快速上架商品，客服上班前再下架，以此规避审查，同时以这种方式向消费者发送商品更新提醒。面对这些没底线又狡诈的黑产人员，如何才能更有效地打击他们呢？首先，能否提高相应的处罚力度？这应该是最具威慑力的手段了。其次，能否从源头管制针孔摄像设备的交易？“花总”也曾表示：“以后购买类似可能用于秘拍的设备是否要实名制，拍出来的这些视频是否可以溯源或者权限管理，就像无人机那样？”还有，对于频繁发生偷拍的酒店等地，是否需要承担连带责任？现实生活中，酒店总是以摄像头并非酒店安装等为由拒绝赔偿，但是保护住户的隐私安全，本该是酒店的义务。一家发生偷拍事件的酒店，只愿意赔偿受害者10张10元代金券
庆幸的是，官方最近的这波整治，已经对电商平台、搜索网站、视频监控APP厂商、视频监控云平台等下手，杀向了黑产的更上游，相信对以上问题应该也不会遗漏。虽然很难根除黑产，但是能向前进一步，留给黑产的空间小一些，最后就能帮到无数人。就算不能斩草除根，也必须要有斩草除根的态度和力度！
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