Just seeing a Weibo post defending the ideology of celibacy or DINK lifestyles, I think I have the right to say something. I used to be a firm celibacy or DINK believer, but I have changed my mindsets at the last minute. I used to be happy with my original thinking, but I am happier now after I changed my crude ideas now with a family of a son and a daughter. U-turn exists in not only traffic rules, but in life philosophy.

你不会是那个自律信念的你，你也不会是那个摆烂坠落的你，有喝醉昏睡半夜酒醒后顶着头痛打的卡，也有刷着剧听着歌涂着身体乳水的卡。有时候坚持，可能就是一点点的被动压力和一丢丢要不试试的想法。相信去年此时同样不是那么怡然的心情，可是"good or bad, hard to say"… n "The secret of being happy is to realize that it is normal to be unhappy."

我的宝贝，你将不再是以月龄为单位，迎来人生的第一个周岁，一岁一周，一生无忧，一岁一礼，一寸欢喜。✨°HappγBir thdayto you ㊗️我宝贝♥生日快乐！ 愿你无疾 无忧 平安喜乐♬

愿你一生被爱愿你如阳光明媚

愿所有的幸运都降临在你身边

愿所有的美好都围绕在你身边。 这一年没有睡过一个好觉但也觉得很幸福，妈妈累过，哭过焦虑无奈也崩溃过，但这些都比不过你带给我的快乐和感动。希望我家萌宝永远快乐成长[玫瑰]