I’m a bad feminist.
我公开接受坏女权主义者的标签。我这样做是因为我有缺点和人性。我对女权主义的历史不是很了解。我并没有像我希望的那样通读重要的女权主义文本。我有一定的……我的兴趣、性格特征和观点可能与主流女权主义不一致，但我仍然是一个女权主义者。我无法告诉你，接受这一点对我来说是多么的自由。-罗克珊娜.盖伊
I openly embrace the label of bad feminist. I do so because I am flawed and human. l am not terribly well versed in feminist history. I am not as well read in key feminist texts as I would like to be. I have certain ... interests and personality traits and opinions that may not fall in line with mainstream feminism, but I am still a feminist. I cannot tell you how freeing it has been to accept this about myself. -Roxane Gay
#bad feminist##女权主义与平等[超话]#

为什么陌生人反而能带来治愈lol
晚饭出来吃今天的第一顿（实在赶作业去了）
旁边两桌坐满了一群白人大叔
两桌是不同的风格 和我更近的这桌很有意思
他们一起畅聊 一起比yeah拍照 一起鼓掌起舞
然后还会用自己带的音响放歌
但我没想到他们居然放了一首
Ain‘t no mountain high enough.
然后我就跟着哼起来
离我最近的突然转过来对我说
You sang well.May u take a photo for us？
hhh夸奖我唱歌了！必须拍（hhh虽然肯定会拍
然后我就拍了一张 然后放盘子去了
他们还想要给我分享一杯beer.
我说了一个自想的笑话
“I dont wanna be fat like a bear，that would hurt my Dear，so today no beer.”
但他们直接WHAT？说我这样还要need to lose weight吗？
But everyone just LOL[鲜花]
Happiness comes！太喜欢这种氛围

Here is my first 20KM.

I was all by myself and Tony Hsieh’s “Delivering Happiness.”
No one knows.
Not my parents.
Nor my closest friends.
No one was cheering for you.
All passers-by just passed by you in either direction. They won’t cast to you warm looks of encouragement, appreciation or sometimes even admiration that may feed one’s ego and lift the pace.
No.
Nothing.
Just me, my feet and my will to get a 20KM, today.
This is the loneliest long-distance run I’ve ever had.
I had thought this run would be a challenge to my heart and lungs.
I was wrong.
I could still speak normally and I wasn’t panting at the end. Of course, I still have a long way to improve my legs’ muscle endurance but I didn’t feel particularly exhausted.
But the run was a combat.
A combat of my mind against insignificance.
A combat of my mind for the ownership of my life.